Ive been labelled by many as too picky. This ever happen to you guys?...I might meet this good looking chick, and she wants to have sex immediately, and Im not into that
Well, if you'll accept a comment from a middle-aged married lady, rather than one of the guys...my guess is that you're "picky" about the wrong things.
Maybe you only want somebody who looks like they came straight out of a "Girls Gone Wild" video, but doesn't act like it. (could be wrong, ignore me if I am)
I'm guessing there are a lot of nice women in your area, who share your standards of behavior, but you aren't meeting them or paying attention if you do because they don't look like bimbettes.
I say this because I've known so many men who are balding and in their forties and working at mediocre jobs, who constantly complain because "no one will go out with them." What they mean is, no one who looks like a playboy playmate will go out with them. When their women friends try to set them up with someone who is more their age, or who is carrying a few extra pounds, they're not interested.Not that you're forty-ish and balding, but if you aren't finding the right women then it's at least possible you're looking in the wrong places.