Posts by arrowstar

Profile: Some men are born great, some achieve greatness and some slit the throats of any man that stands between them and the mantle of power. You never met a man you couldn't eviscerate. Not that mindless violence is the only avenue open to you - but why take an avenue when you have complete freeway access? You are the definitive Man of Action. You are James Bond in a blousy shirt and drawstring-fly pants. Your swash was buckled long ago and you have never been so sure of anything in your life as in your ability to bend everyone to your will. You will call anyone out and cut off their head if they show any sign of taking you on or backing down. You cannot be saddled with tedious underlings, but if one of your lieutenants shows an overly developed sense of ambition he may find more suitable accommodations in Davy Jones' locker. That is, of course, IF you notice him. You tend to be self absorbed - a weakness that may keep you from seeing enemies where they are and imagining them where they are not.

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(((((Group Hug)))))

by LittleToe in

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there's been too much volatile stuff going around, and a few folks appear tetchy.. can we drop any issues, and just enjoy a ((((group hug)))) for a moment.... ((((hugs to everyone)))).

love you guys.

coz regardless of the ups and downs, this place is a little like the family i lost.... sometimes i need to take a step back, have a break and some quiet time, but that's ok, too.. every blessing to everyone,.

arrowstar

ACK!!! there's groping?!?!

I came in here for a hug...!!

oh well...if ya can't beat 'em....join 'em

(((Group Grope with pinchin' bums included)))

Lisa

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Your Online Persona

by Xena in

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i saw a thread recently that asked if you were different from your online persona, most people answered to varying degrees "no".

that made me wonder though how do you view yourself and how do other people view you?

what kind of a person do you feel you project?

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I am a sly, shreaking violent type in real life

Violent??

nah...

delightful...warm...intelligent...witty...sexy...great hugger....

That's the Sixy I met

Lisa

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My biopsy test results are back - good news

by Lady Lee in

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wooheee .

i'm cancer free.

i am so relieved.

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(((Lady))) & ((Rayzor))

This is wonderful...wonderful news!!! I'm so happy for you both.

Lisa

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Our Wedding Picture

by doodle-v in

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hey guys, we just got back from vegas!

got home at 3 this morning *yawn* we had a blast though!

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((doodle & savage))

Thank you for sharing this moment with us. What a lovely couple...and so happy.

May you have a long and wonderful life together.

Lisa

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Women and abusive relationships...I don't understand?

by obiwan in

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why do you stay in an abusive relationship?

do you feel that it's your responsibility to change him?

do you feel you "owe" him.

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((tink)) ...anytime babygirl

Obi - gently present the facts to them. Offer support where you can give it. Refer them to agencies better equiped to handle it. But always be a good friend by being there for them. They may finally reach out for help. Someone needs to be there to take their hand.

Lisa

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Women and abusive relationships...I don't understand?

by obiwan in

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why do you stay in an abusive relationship?

do you feel that it's your responsibility to change him?

do you feel you "owe" him.

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Stinky

I understand that fact. However, it could put that seen in people's minds.

Tink

Like Tink said...it starts slowly...you really don't see it coming till it's too late and you're in too deep.

Also, usually the abuse doesn't start in the beginning of the relationship.

Babygirl, I know you weren't speaking in generalizations...but sometimes people just scan these threads and don't really get to the specifics. I just wanted them to know that it's not always the case. ((Tink))

Will

I didn't want an abuser. I wanted a nice man. He presented himself as a nice man. After the divorce, I had serious trust issues because of the lies. If he walks like a nice man...and he talks like a nice man...and treats you like a nice man...surely he is a nice man. Ain't always the case...wanna see the scars on my body??

Lisa