Welcome JWinprotest! Thanks for sharing your situation.
My personal feeling on this is that it's not worth staying in the religion just to retain friendships. It is true that there's an amount of pain involved with leaving and having friends and family (potentially) cut you off, but it will eventually be overshadowed by the joy in being able to live your life the way you see fit. The time it takes for that joy to overtake the pain varies from person to person.
Best of luck to you and your family. You all deserve to be happy!