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  Ghosts and Hades: Another Watchtower Deception

  by metatron in

  1. watchtower
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  what did the jews in jesus' day think about the soul and hades?.

  if you read the watchtower, you might think that they dutifully followed jw teaching.

  and had no idea about immortal souls or ghosts or punishment in hades.. .

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  What an excellant post, I have always questioned the beliefs.

  I was born and raised Catholic and convereted when I was 18, since leaving, I am so confused on what to think. Part of me goes back to my Catholic background and the other part of me stops myself from thinking any other way but "WTS" way. I have been "out" for almost 4 months now, my thinking is starting to revert back to what it was before. Even though I was Catholic, I was not a "strict" member, my grandmother, who went all the time, was one of the most open minded people I have ever met, she always told me to believe in God and he would show me the way, not man or organization.

  again, great post!

  Garnet
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  Unwritten rules at the Kingdom Hall, what were yours ???

  by run dont walk in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  every one of us who attended the kingdom hall, must have went through this at some time, and noticed things you were not supposed to do, even though it wasn't wrong.

  the biggie at our hall was do not sit in the back row, i always did, what was the deal on that, why put chairs there.

  - don't back you car in, someone would go out and check this nightly, ???.

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  I was not allowed to sit next to my husband (when we were dating) both of his parents had to sit in between us..BUT sister pioneer and her now husband were all over each other during the meeting, and I mean some "heavy petting" going on. My hubby was also counciled about having a "worldy girlfriend", who was me at the time...he told them...well she's studying, so does that make her evil...they actually told him yes and I would probably "pull him away" from the religion...ya okay, whatever. He never wanted to go in the first place

  The men HAD to wear suit coats out in service, even when it was 100 degrees outside...felt bad for the men in dark suits. If you didnt wear a suit coat, then you had no privledges.

  I had a dress on and it went not even an inch past my knees (even sitting down it was maybe 2 inches above my knee), the elders wife brought me to their house and made me wear her clothes...the thing is, they counciled me in front of the whole car group of "appropriate attire"...they could have least done it in private. This is the same elder who decided 2 weeks before our wedding that "he didnt think that it would be appropriate to marry us in the hall. My husband was nearly killed by a drunk driver and couldnt make meetings because he was bed ridden, they felt that our attendance was slipping ...then he decided that he didnt feel right marrying us...we werent "strong enough". after balling my eyes out for 45 mintues while they tried to convince us to cancel the wedding, I laughed and then went the JP and she was MORE than glad to marry us.

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  A visit with my sister

  by little witch in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my sister recently moved to a big beautiful home in southern indiana... all her neighbors are amish.... so we are sitting on the front porch, talking, and she tells me about the amish neighbors, and that they stop by and talk all the time...i go, ''what''????

  i thought we werent to speak to the amish, that would be rude......boy was i deluded.

  about this time, up the road come two amish men, and two girls..... they were dressed in blue, and had on their hats, and the girls followed shortly afterward..they stood at the bottom of the drive, till we said hi, like they were waiting to be invited....real polite, and proper... now keep in mind, as this story unfolds, i have never in my life talked to an amish...so i didnt know what to expect.... so my sister says, ""hi , how are you all''?.

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  (((little witch))) Dont worry about "rambling on", I do it all the time :) It is a way to get things off of your chest. It sounds like you have been to hell and back. I think your sister is right, you should write to your family member and tell them what you need to. You sound like strong person, dont let anyone tear you down. I am here with both ears open and a shoulder to lean on if you need one

  I didnt know that about the Amish as well! I thought that they didn't speak to "outsiders". It sounds like they were really cool to talk to! It must be so interesting to meet someone of a different culture like that. They also sound very sweet and sincere...did you get that impression from them as well? Just curious, does your sis live in PA? (DUR...just realized you already mentioned where she lives)

  With Love

  Garnet
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  Birthday Experience

  by oldcrowwoman in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  it was a emotionally packed week-end.

  one never know's whats around the cornor?

  i am grateful to be in a place to not create crisises for myself.

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  Happy Birthday!

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  A loss of Life, A tribute to my nieces....

  by Cassiline in

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  2. friends

  thirteen years ago my nieces were murdered.

  today is a hard day for me, remembering the phone call the shock and pain.

  lives stolen in a moment.

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  (((Cassie & Family))), please accept my condolences and heartfelt sympathy. It is hard to lose someone you love, even more so when it is a child. I will light two candels tonight in remembrence of your two neices. remember that it takes time to heal a broken heart.

  With Love

  Garnet
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  MY JC - I AM SO SICK

  by rebel in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have never tried to hurt anyone in my life.

  i have always tried to love others from my own childhood upbringing.. i have been treated like a traitor.

  everything i said was twisted.

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  ((((Rebel))))

  I am so sorry hun that it went worse than expected. The hurt will heal in time. If you ever want to talk, please feel free to shoot me a message.

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  FOOD at the Proper Time - JWD Cookbook

  by Lady Lee in

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  well i have a cover.

  it can be changed if we want something different but here is a sample.

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  HI LadyLee,

  It looks great (You should be very proud of your hard work)! When will it be up for purchase? I would love to buy 1 or 2 even!

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  New Girl on the block

  by Teela in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been reading the threads for about a year now and thought its time to post my story.

  i cant remember much up until i was ten except the usual no birthdays, no worldly friends or bad associates.

  then it was a series of arguments of why i didnt what to go to church.

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  Welcome Teela!

  I am looking forward to hearing more from you :) It's funny, I never called the "kingdom hall" by the name, it was always church to me (born and raised Catholic), my Mom would have a fit when I called it "Kingdom Hall", she always asked why it wasn't called Church or "Service". It's funny when you are out and looking in...you can really see how much thought control they had. Good for you at the young age of 10 realizing what you were into. I started in at 18 and just recently began to "fade".

  Much Love

  Garnet
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  new member

  by heather_66350 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hey everyone.

  im new here.

  i was invited here by coldredrain.

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  Garnet

  Hi Heather, Welcome to the board!

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  Growing up a gay Jehovah's Witness (My Life Story)

  by m0nk3y in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i feel the need to express how i feel and felt about my life as a gay man.

  i was brought up from birth as a jehovahs witness.

  this has played a major part in my life and it has been a real struggle to get past.

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  ((((Josh))))

  You are a very brave man, it takes so much to talk about your problems, esp. with other people. I admire your strength and your willingness to share such a dramatic personal experience with all of us out here on the board.

  We all go through trying times in our lives, your experience was not an easy one, but you made it through...as one poster said "what doesnt kill you , makes you stronger". I am a firm beliver in that statement, throughout my own life, I have battled bouts of chronic depression and substance abuse, I also made it and I am a stronger person now than I was before. Keep your head up and stay strong.

  Much Love

  Garnet