Merry
Barry seems to prefer being able to voice negative opinions unopposed, if his sudden silence is anything to go by.
How are you? I hope all is well with you.
I think we can dispense with Apologetics for Sharia Law; I am opposed to a law system that utilises capital punishment and institutionalises misogyny on grounds of human rights, and find it rather offensive that without any substansive proof what-so-ever human opinion and tradition are asserted to be "god's law".
Such arguments may placate you, but as a humanist why should I find them of any relevence? Your protestations as to how equal you may or may not feel don't change my opinion, any more than a slave telling me what a good master he had would convince me slavery was okay. The slave may feel better off, protected. But from my view point he's a slave and his argument doesn't change that.
Should I 'let' Northern Afican Muslims circumsize their daughters as they believe it is god's law? Should I 'let' people from the 'Children of God' cult have sex with children because they believe it is god's law? Should I 'let' fundamental Christians distort science to restrict school curricilums because they believe it is god's law?
If the answer to the above is 'no', as it obviously is, why should I 'let' Muslims enforce a law system that violates human rights just because they say it is god's law?
But you know yourself that a Muslim in one place can practice a form of Islam substansively different from another somewhere else. Whilst you know intellectually that it is a morass, a fog of human interpretation and cultural leanings (rather than monolithic observance of God's Law without variation) you quite literally avoid thinking about this.
Last time when we were discussing the veil I saw a similar tendancy. You simultaneously feel that the veil is god's law, but will not criticise other Muslim women who don't wear it. If I recall correctly you don't even get into the argument the veil is a cultural thing, despite the masses of evidence from the Muslim world and from areas where for centuries Muslim, Jewish and Christian women living side-by-side were veiled. You simply make apolgisms for following a traditional regional clothing code.
Since we last discussed things I spent a delightful week in Egypt. The people are friendly and kind, easy to talk to. And then a waiter runs off to show you a photo of his 14 year-old wife...
Of course, he's no more a pedophile than Jerry Lee Lewis, or other Americans marrying distastfully young girls when the law still allowed it. But it is a bit shocking.
You have the luxery of taking on what you like of a religion in an environment where there are no negative consqunces if you turn away and do your own thing.
To thus make apologisms for Sharia is a little too easy for you to make it palitable for me. To wear a veil when here is no Qu'ranic basis for it rather than showing someone can live a life as a unveiled female Muslim and thus maybe in your small way help Muslim women who don't have your freedom get closer to getting those freedoms is likewise somehow distasteful.
You strike me as a nice person, but I just can't agree with you actions and thoughts in this respect.
Muslims still have a right and a duty to live by the laws of their religion as best they can
But whose definiton of Islamic Law Merry? You keep hiding from the fact that there is no single indisputable definiton of this, and thus in your rush to have god as you'd like him do nothing more than worship man-made laws.