WW7 Hi and welcome
I can so relate to your CV thus far -
My family and I [4 of us] are now faded-out and we have been as good as DF'ed. No contact from the bro-hood whatsoever. In fact we have a family - still in - member living under the same roof and our aged and debilitated granma. They requested the CO visit the old-girl recently and when he pitched he didnt even enquire about my wife and I. Also that was the only time an elders feet actually crossed the threshold of the home. No e-mail/phone-calls/sms' - You will come to accept this as your "new say of life" and you will value it.
if the friendships we had were so conditional ie if you dont attend the meetings we cant associate with you, then they were never friendships at all were they!!
I was an elder for 17 years and a B+ District Convention rated speaker [Thats right - many dont know but all elders are rated annually as to their ability and eligibility to be use on the DC programs ] I was also the TMS OS for 15 years - it means nothing to them - we are just the pawns in their religous game. They will sacrifice the pieces for their own ends.
btw I hope the depression you experienced was mild and not deep, dark.