I was summoned to a JC and just kept excusing myself from attending any of their proposed dates and times until they sent me a final SMS saying if I did not attend that one they would proceed without me [Now go ponder that too - ie we have predestined the outcome anyway]
I told them that I was most interested in coming before them and would attend this finale.
So I then sent them an Attorneys letter in which the Attorney informed them that he would be representing me at this JC and that he thus required "all the relevant files, info, documents, charge sheet" etc etc
They never came back after that !
BUT My wife and I are Totally Shunned by them anyway. I have no knowledge of whether they held a Marking Talk before this time ?
Don't be scared to spend a $$ or 2 and get a legal person involved /
Lawyer also cautioned them not to permit any scandal, gossip etc to be made against us or else...