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  I will give my husband the divorce he wants

  by losingit in

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  not because i agree with him.

  because i do not want the divorce.

  but because i love him and i want to respect him.

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  Losing it,

  We can't change men.. Yet, they will try their damndest to change us. He knows for a fact that he has changed you and that you still want the marriage. From what I am reading, he does not want to stay in the marriage. Let him go sweety... you may love him, but he is not showing love to you and your children by ignoring to pay your rent or utilities. What do your children know of this? Is this their father?

  Anyway, get on with your life please... make new friends, take up a hobby, have a girls movie night with a friend & her children. Fix pop corn, watch a funny, funny movie. Meet a friend for lunch, for a walk in the park, take up an exercise class and make new friends... You have got to start living ..you have been dieing for too long because this man wants to controll your life & future.

  Why doesn't he file for the divorce? If he wants it so bad, let him pay for it.. But don't give in to him in any way , shape or form. Talk to a lawyer- the first consultation is usually free. Find out where you stand.

  Sounds to me like this guy needs to be reported to the local KH... but if he is already disfellowshipped, they probably won't do anything to him. Are you disfellowshipped? If not, just start to fade away from the JW mess; at the right time, when you are thru the divorce, then you can cut all ties to JW and disassociate yourself. Find better people to associate with,,,who will love you for you, and not on conditions.

  Hope this helps...take care
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  Disfellowshipping

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  i wanted to know if anyone on here was df'd or know of any who were...why i ask is because many of the friends i have spoken to, say it's not done, just like that.

  it's a process.

  i have spoken to a re-instated sister and she said by the time they see you, you are pretty much out.

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  Honeybee 78,

  Do you have to go to the appeals meeting? Will they df you if you don't show up? I have been df'd and i da'd in the year 2000. At least the da calmed me more...it was on my terms that I left, not on their terms, leading them to believe they had authority to punish or forgive me. It is like being on trial. They want details and names or people you might be involved with ( my situations,,, i had an affair with a police officer) they wanted his name and address so that they could talk to him, and clear Jehovahs name. I did not give them the name. My problem to deal with.

  If you can get by with not going to the appeals meeting, and just fade out, then later just send in a da letter....maybe by that time your parents will have had enought time to adjust to the fact that you just aren't going to go back in --ever.
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  Is Jehovah our Grandfather? August 1, 1995 Watchtower

  by [email protected] in

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  i was really surprised when re- reading an article in mm outreach booklet the other day..it mentioned the.

  august 1st 1995 watchtower stating that the other sheep ( the great crowd) can relate to jehovah as their grandfather thru the "eternal father, jesus" omg!

  did the organization really write that.. yes, i kept some old watchtowers and found that issue.

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  [email protected]

  I tried to respond to you today, but I was having some trouble, so i did some cut & paste. Did you get my message about MMOUtreach and what it was?
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  Jehovah our Grandfather

  by [email protected] in

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  sorry , i couldn't figure out how to post a reply to you.

  i couldn't find my topic that i started.

  check out mm outreach at www.mmoutreach.com.

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  Sorry , I couldn't figure out how to post a reply to you. I couldn't find my topic that I started. Can you tell me how to reply, without copying & pasting your comment? MM Outreach used to be McGreggor Ministries. Check out MM Outreach at www.mmoutreach.com LV101

  They have some real good information on all religions, dvd's , books. I use MM outreach all the time , to keep updated. You can probably find the article I am refering to in their News & Views booklet under July, Aug, Sept. 2012. You can also write to them and probably get a free sample booklet. But check out their website, and read the Watchtower article I mentioned. It really hit me, that I never saw that blazen statement in 1995. God opens our eyes when it is time. Please let me know how to respond to posts, even from my own post. One more thing,,, how can people respond to our posts if they are taken off the board the next day?

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  Hi lindajwhite --- question: What is MM Outreach? I vaguely recall reading that Watchtower but was so miserable while in thought nothing of it -- I was fading at that time but missed so much anyway no one noticed. I'm sure the gang will be responding to your post. There's some very intelligent, knowledgeable, members of this board so should be interestin
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  Is Jehovah our Grandfather? August 1, 1995 Watchtower

  by [email protected] in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i was really surprised when re- reading an article in mm outreach booklet the other day..it mentioned the.

  august 1st 1995 watchtower stating that the other sheep ( the great crowd) can relate to jehovah as their grandfather thru the "eternal father, jesus" omg!

  did the organization really write that.. yes, i kept some old watchtowers and found that issue.

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  I was really surprised when re- reading an article in MM Outreach booklet the other day..It mentioned the

  August 1st 1995 Watchtower stating that the other sheep ( the great crowd) can relate to Jehovah as their grandfather thru the "Eternal Father, Jesus" OMG! Did the organization really write that.

  Yes, I kept some old Watchtowers and found that issue. There it was in all its confusing jibberish. Why had I know read that back in '95. Was I shutting out the "truth" they were trying to teach me.?? No, it just didn't hit me then. God has a time for everything, and this was His time to reveal to me thru the MM Outreach so that I could once again dig a little deeper.

  I am no longer in the Watchtower organization...and with my eyes & heart open, I can understand when God is speaking to me to clarify something. When I was a JW, I never once believed that Jehovah God was my "grandfather". Was I to pray to Jehovah my grandfather? And to even believe that Jesus was my " eternal father"-- oh gosh no! We couldn't believe that!!

  I was always taught that Jesus was just a man, a god. He was never the eternal father...but read the Watchtower article for yourself. Could it be that in '95 the organization was teaching false hoods about their own belief?!

  Let me know what you think. I don't know when the last time was that someone posted on this website, but I would like to see some responses to my questions.

  Thanks & God the Father Bless you!

  Not God the grandfather.