Stealth- Matt 7.12 Jesus said do unto others as you want them to do to you. Jesus' example of this how he treated the woman with the flow of blood who broke the law of Moses and Jesus healed her anyway and called her daughter
In contrast Paul wrote in 1Cor 14.35,36, about women beoing silent at meetings, and it's a disgrce if a woman speaks at a gathering, she should shut it, and just talk about it at home to her husband. He dissmissed any notion of single women entirely.
As a woman, what Paul wrote made me personally feel he did not treat me how I want to be treated, or how Jesus wanted me to be treated.
I hope that answers your question Stealth
Kate xx