Posts by KateWild

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Kate Wild

by quellycatface in

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i've been given permission to post news of our friend.. kate hasn't been very well.

not well at all.

i think much of it has been a delayed reaction to her df'ing, the general fallout when leaving the wtbs and family issues.. i just wanted to give you guys the heads up and give you a chance to show how much we care about her.. thanks for listening..

KateWild

Stuck, John Mann, KM,

Thank you guys

Kate xx

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I am Back on JWN and out of hospital

by KateWild in

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friends

hey everyone,.

thanks qcf and nugget for starting threads.

thanks cofty for wondering where i was.

KateWild

A few martinis might help (but not with medication)...-vid

hhahahahahahah lol!!!! My therapist advised I can have a glass of wine with my meal during my hols. Yipeee. I can't wait. We are going to tenerife.

Kate xx

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Kate Wild

by quellycatface in

jw
friends

i've been given permission to post news of our friend.. kate hasn't been very well.

not well at all.

i think much of it has been a delayed reaction to her df'ing, the general fallout when leaving the wtbs and family issues.. i just wanted to give you guys the heads up and give you a chance to show how much we care about her.. thanks for listening..

KateWild

OK everyone,

I have read the thread now. I am better.

I would like to be clear and state I had a reactive psychosis due to court. I do not have a mental illness I have ASD, which has a symtom of OCD. I am obsessed with JWN, true and I need to work on that and I am. It's a work in progress, after all I did only leave WT in Nov 2013.

Building a new life takes time. But now I have real friends on JWN, ones that really care.

John Mann, thank you for your concern,

Kate xx

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I am Back on JWN and out of hospital

by KateWild in

jw
friends

hey everyone,.

thanks qcf and nugget for starting threads.

thanks cofty for wondering where i was.

KateWild

Take care and enjoy your holiday.- cofty

Thanks Bill, I will

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I am Back on JWN and out of hospital

by KateWild in

jw
friends

hey everyone,.

thanks qcf and nugget for starting threads.

thanks cofty for wondering where i was.

KateWild

How are you doing? What's going on? why were you in hospital and why are you going back to meetings? Take care - PM

Hello poster,

Thanks for your PM. I am doing fantastic, I had reactive psychosis. I recovered within 24 hrs, and was under observation for 4 days. I have been discharged now. I am going to meeting because of a loved one that has helped me and supported me through my hospital stay.

He is df'd and wants to get RI'd, if he does he will be miserable for the rest of his life and he is only 27yrs. I love him dearly and want to help him. He is now working for me in a probationary capacity for three months, he will not allow the elders to dictate who he works for if he get's RI'd.

Thank you for your PM, I know you care about me, but I also know you are a little confused I hope this answers you. If you like you can ring me. You have my number. I am glad you enquired.

Kate xx

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Kate Wild

by quellycatface in

jw
friends

i've been given permission to post news of our friend.. kate hasn't been very well.

not well at all.

i think much of it has been a delayed reaction to her df'ing, the general fallout when leaving the wtbs and family issues.. i just wanted to give you guys the heads up and give you a chance to show how much we care about her.. thanks for listening..

KateWild

QCF,

Thanks for this thread, there are over 2500 hits, 4 pages, and 62 posts. Thanks everyone for caring, I haven't had a chance to read the whole thread yet, but I needed to mark it so I can read it later.

Kate xx

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I am Back on JWN and out of hospital

by KateWild in

jw
friends

hey everyone,.

thanks qcf and nugget for starting threads.

thanks cofty for wondering where i was.

KateWild

Hey Everyone,

Thanks QCF and Nugget for starting threads. Thanks cofty for wondering where I was. Thanks Happy@last and cantleave for shepherding me. Thanks everyone else for posting on the new threads.

I am going on holiday with my daughter on Sunday and will be off line for a week. We will be sunbathing and reading. No internet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes I am going back to meetings for family reasons. I don't want to but I have to for the moment. The elders know I don't want to get reinstated, but if you have any questions feel free to ask them on this thread. I will answer almost any query you have. However I may need to take it to PM if it's too personal.

I would like to give full transparency though to help as many of you as I can to escape this rotten cult, especially those still in who feel trapped.

I love you all dearly

Kate xx (Sam)

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Internet Dating - I feel like I am being love bombed again

by KateWild in

i am on three or four sites and lots of guys are showing an interest and trying to be genuine.

it reminds me of being love bombed by the jws.

i am having so much fun and loving all the attention, i almost got carried away with it all, until i got a pm on jwn.. i have just been absorbing it all and it dawned on me i am still vulnerable, and possibly not ready to date.

KateWild

Or do stupid men simply introduce control all at once?-DJS

Yes stupid and impatient men do. I have experienced this already

A lot of studies suggest insecure men try to control others and insecure women (redundant?) are clingy, needy and manipulative.-DJS

Excellent point, so would you agree multiple dating can create insecruties in everyone?

I am confident and you know what DJS, I am no size 10 uk, I could do with losing a few pounds, but when I look in the mirror I feel confident about myself and my appearance, I am in general content and happy. I think it's because I came to JWN to really truly deprogram and get everything out my system.

I devoloped a circle of friends first. Now I am ready to date, but not be exclusive.

Kate xx

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How Pioneering has prepared me for multiple Dates

by KateWild in

i have two more dates this week.

keeping track of who is who and showing them a "genuine" interest has been fun to say the least.

i can prepare for each "return visit" in advance and take notes after each date.. so is this ethical?.

KateWild

Thanks everyone, I decided to reply to someone else and now have a better offer, and I identified a red flag and cancelled a date. It's good to have my JWN mates.

Some of you have followed my story and you only want the best for me, I feel we are real friends.

I would love to meet up with you all

DHOH - I know it's impossible for us to meet up, however I may just come to a meeting as Kate Wild the regular pioneer, participate like a trooper, and you and your wife can come out for a meal with me, and I will just chat about my pioneering, hahahaha. If you want to PM me your KH cong name. It could be a laugh, it would at least make the meeting interesting for you lol xx

SF - where in the UK are you, PM me and we can arrange to go for lunch or something in the future.

Fraz-next time I am in London is a whistle stop visit I can't meet up, but possibly in August I will be around for two week so we can meet up, Laika will come too if we give him enough notice.

Sparrow-You have only been on for a while, PM me if you are from the UK and you want to meet up

Nonjw / JW daughter - PM me your address if you could put me up for a week, I may plan a trip to fly and and visit you

Please get back to me about meeting up, I love you all

Kate xx

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How Pioneering has prepared me for multiple Dates

by KateWild in

i have two more dates this week.

keeping track of who is who and showing them a "genuine" interest has been fun to say the least.

i can prepare for each "return visit" in advance and take notes after each date.. so is this ethical?.

KateWild

Oh dear,

The consensus seems to be to have mutiple dates. I have just replied to about four guys the following.

"Thank you for your interest. I have just been asked out on a couple of dates this week, if there are no sparks I will let you know. I am afriad I will not be answering any more messages today"

I have all good lucks in response.

Okay I am readjusting my strategy after reading the advice

Kate xx