He doesn't want to be reminded every day because he is bitter, angry. and touchy.-3rdgen
There are stages of recovery as he has less time and less inclination it seems like he is stuck in the first stage.
I came out without my husband. He was my ex when I left so I can't speak from that perspective. But My daughter and I left within months of eachother. She has recovered in her own way and we sometimes do argue over JW stuff. One time she got very angry and resentful and I thought she would never speak to me again, but now she has completely worked through it and is really upbeat with me and a chatterbox.
Everyone is different I suppose, she did start a thread on JWN about her story, but she hasn't been back since then, whereas I feel the need to check in daily.
Kate xx