soooo..... going to ask that wonderful lady for her phone number tonight as per everyone's advice... first time i will ever be doing that with a non jw girl...erm...woman.
my dear female friends, what are some genuine questions i can pose to get a conversation rolling and what are some other questions/things i can ask/say to restart a stalled conversation?
i'm very very shy when talking to new people... especially someone i'm interested in, and have some social anxiety.
Garret,
There needs to be something more specific about her that interest you than you've mentioned. If you think she is fun, what fun things does she do?
If you think she is intellectual, what topics stimulate her?
You cannot prepare for a nice flowing conversation really Garret, or it will sound mechanical. You just need to show her you really are interested. Start off by talking about her job and then her hobbies.
Kate xx
i am noticing that when some of the ads run, the page keeps scrolling upward towards them.
this is annoying and should be addressed, as it makes some threads almost impossible to read.
have same effect on two different oss, (same browser type, firefox).
I am not experiencing this. I use Chrome as my browser
Kate xx
soooo..... going to ask that wonderful lady for her phone number tonight as per everyone's advice... first time i will ever be doing that with a non jw girl...erm...woman.
my dear female friends, what are some genuine questions i can pose to get a conversation rolling and what are some other questions/things i can ask/say to restart a stalled conversation?
i'm very very shy when talking to new people... especially someone i'm interested in, and have some social anxiety.
fmf-good try, but as a female I wouldn't recommend he talk about his interest and his photos. I date guys who show an interest in me. Then I show them an interest.
Garret, why do you find her interesting? Draw on this and get her to talk about herself. Everyone like talking about themselves and answering relevant questions.#
Kate xx
soooo..... going to ask that wonderful lady for her phone number tonight as per everyone's advice... first time i will ever be doing that with a non jw girl...erm...woman.
my dear female friends, what are some genuine questions i can pose to get a conversation rolling and what are some other questions/things i can ask/say to restart a stalled conversation?
i'm very very shy when talking to new people... especially someone i'm interested in, and have some social anxiety.
If you want to ask genuine questions you need to be genuinely interested in her personality. What exactly interest you about her?
Kate xx
the letter that watchtower free put up was very interesting.
here is my impression.. the watchtower is becoming more and more geared towards idiots.
the midweek meeting has a stupid name, and the parts sound equally dumb.
Can anyone think of a financial gain in recruiting lower IQ members?- Millie
Yes it's aimed at children to get them baptised early and trap them in the cult. I am outraged at this. So even if they opt for higher education and well paid jobs they are still trapped and part of the cult. Perhaps even MS and elders running the the business for the GB
Kate xx
i just texted a very good remote worker friend, said i heard that there is a reduction in force coming at bethel and i hoped he wouldn't be affected.
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he said its true, its not a rumor.
Teach Us Book: The first provision is a new 224-page publication entitled What Can the Bible Teach Us? It is based on the book What Does the Bible Really Teach? The Teach Us book does not replace the Bible Teach book. Rather, it will be useful when studying with individuals who need to have the truth presented in a simpler manner. Besides having simplified text, the Teach Us book has the following additional features:
This is definitely targeted at children and vulnerable adults with learning difficulties. I am outrages at this and I agree this needs a new thread, if you haven't already
As far as the downsizing is concerned it's clear they're funding law suits without the GB going without their luxury lifestyles.
Kate xx
my name is jack and i'm looking for after death communications from the jehovah witness community.
an after death communication (or adc) is when a loved one sends a kind of message to this side of life after their death.
it can be a dream or smell (like perfume or roses that would be attached to them in memory) or a feeling of their presence.
Jack,
It's interesting you have had messages in private. But if I had an experience I would show evidence about it. I can't understand why some people choose to keep these experiences secret unless in fact they have doubts themselves.
Kate xx
yesterday i had an email from amnesty international about the two sisters in an indian village who were sentenced by the village elders to be raped as a punishment for their brother falling in love with a woman from another hindu caste and eloping with her.. amnesty do a great deal of good work but the real force is individuals who sign the petitions and send letters and emails to political leaders.
people power folks, it really works.
for those of us who signed the petition and the rest of the over 300,000 people who did, meenakshi and her young sister thank you.
That's really surprising yet good news.
Kate xx
i'm wondering why ones on this forum initially became jw's.
if you were born in, why did you make it "your own"?
if you became one later, what was your draw and driving force?
I chose JWs because of the love bombing. I was 20 yrs old at University in a new city and wanted a circle of friends. It was more an emotional decision rather than a logical one. The JWs I met were very loving and thoughtful as they are trained to be. They showed me they were the disciples as they had love. (John 13.34,35)
I left because of the lack of love too. The elders were not kind or loving. If you want to hear a recording of my JC let me know and I will add it to the thread.
Kate xx
hello, i'm a new user to this site.
i will like to visit you, read your stories and learn more about your experiences.
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Welcome. Hopefully you will get a lot of support if that's what you've come for
Kate xx
