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  Is Virginity All It's Crack'd Up To Be?

  by Englishman in

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  seems to me that in the jw religion, virginity is considered to be an essential requirement for the born-into-its, right up until the time that they get married.

  seems to me also, that the jw religion, while condemning fornication generally, sets greater store on females remaining intacto, as opposed to males, what with references to "old towels that any man can wipe his hands on" and the like.

  very patriarchal.

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  freein89

  In my case, waiting for marriage was a disaster. I cried myself to sleep on my wedding night. I just thought "That was it?" Also I was so ashamed that I didn't leave our apartment for a week. I though people would look at me and know what I had been doing. Because it was a terrible sin one day and okey dokey the next. Messed with my poor 19 year old head.

  I also found out that I was not in the least attracted to my new husband, which is probably the real reason I cried myself to sleep on my wedding night and for many nights after. Of course I cried quietly and only after he was asleep because a good wife wouldn't keep her husband awake with her misery.

  Sad and funny memories,

  Deb
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  Good Morning

  by freein89 in

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  it's 5:10 and i've been up since 4, i've had lots o coffee and i feel chatty.

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  Thanks Maya,

  I don't like hot weather much, I'd rather have chilly. Today we might get to 70 degrees or so, perfect!!

  Deb
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  Good Morning

  by freein89 in

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  it's 5:10 and i've been up since 4, i've had lots o coffee and i feel chatty.

  deb

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  Midday in the UK, Now that's poetry, not bad for one nursing a little hangover!!!!!!!!!!!

  Here's one,

  Roses are Red and

  Violets are Blue

  Why the hell did I drink so much?

  Deb
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  Just out of curiousity...

  by thedarknesswithin in

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  is this forum official?

  i found it in a search result, but there appears to be in no way connected to watchtower.org.

  so i was just wondering if this was the real deal or just a jw forum doing it own thing?

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  freein89

  Oh, sorry Darkness,

  Are you a Jehovah's Witness?

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  Good Morning

  by freein89 in

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  it's 5:10 and i've been up since 4, i've had lots o coffee and i feel chatty.

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  freein89

  Hi Maya!!

  You must not live in Wisconsin, we are having a little chilly spell, I'm freezin, thinking about turning up the heat!!

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  Good Morning

  by freein89 in

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  it's 5:10 and i've been up since 4, i've had lots o coffee and i feel chatty.

  deb

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  Hey, the coffee works!!!

  What? How did you manage to end up with drunken 12 year olds?

  Deb
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  Good Morning

  by freein89 in

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  it's 5:10 and i've been up since 4, i've had lots o coffee and i feel chatty.

  deb

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  freein89

  Well Fine Then!!!! I'll just chat with myself!

  OK I'll start. . . Good Morning Deb, I feel chatty too.

  You do? Me too.

  Hey I just noticed you've been here for a whole year.

  Yup. . .
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  Just out of curiousity...

  by thedarknesswithin in

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  is this forum official?

  i found it in a search result, but there appears to be in no way connected to watchtower.org.

  so i was just wondering if this was the real deal or just a jw forum doing it own thing?

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  freein89

  Good Morning and Welcome Darkness!!!!!!!!!

  No this is not an official JW site. Most of us are recovering JW's

  Deb
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  Good Morning

  by freein89 in

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  it's 5:10 and i've been up since 4, i've had lots o coffee and i feel chatty.

  deb

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  freein89

  It's 5:10 and I've been up since 4, I've had lots o coffee and I feel chatty.

  Deb
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  Will I die at Armageddon?

  by sinamongurl in

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  the anwser is: know one really knows but jehovah.. i have been df'd for 3 years now.

  i still struggle with: "should i go back cuz i dont want to die" .

  but then its not really for the "right" reason.

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  freein89

  Steve,

  well, now I have to vote for Farkel's answer AGAIN!!!

  Deb