I was too young to prevent this, but my parents (who believed that shyte, it was 1972) had me hauled out of HS at age 14, when I had a super scholarship deal for my senior year, as an exchange student in Paris. The Guidance Counsellor had been working with me, but when Mother found out ... well, Jehovah wasn't gonna let that happen! NO, don't let that child be a doctor! So, I don't even remember ages 14-16, but dd leave home at 16 to board with another JW family.
I left the religion when I was 18, and never darkened the door of a KH since. It wasn't easy to go it alone in the 70s, with poor health and a grade X education. But I went back to school, and university, and am proud of my personal achievements.
Fast forward 20 years ... my mother "Oh, and AP (a girl I grew up with, whose father was 'worldly' and mother 'spiritually weak') is a DOCTOR! Isn't that amazing? Her mother is so PROUD!"
"But mom, I wanted to be a doctor and you wouldn't let me."
"That's not true. You *wanted* to leave school."
Hypocritical woman that she is. She is the perfect 'elderette'.
Ah, yes, the 1975 Generation. Some of us didn't believe, or buy into that, but still paid the price.
(PS, if you are reading this, AP, don't take offense. I am happy for you! xoxo J)