Guys, here's the REAL "5 pillars of Witness life"
1) Masturbation
2) Porn
3) Lying about masturbation and porn
4) Pretending happiness
5) NOT THINKING
oh, there is one brother that keeps prattling on about "the 5 pillars of faith and worship".
- prayer.
- personal study.
Guys, here's the REAL "5 pillars of Witness life"
1) Masturbation
2) Porn
3) Lying about masturbation and porn
4) Pretending happiness
5) NOT THINKING
i know of several who have nothing to do with the internet as if it will lead them off into oblivion.
how many do you know that feel this way?
I have this j-dub neighbor who chooses not to have Internet in his home nor at his cell phone. The reason, as you may have guessed it.. Porn. He wants to avoid seeing porn, but that's doesn't seem to help so much, since he's almost every week in a 'counsel' session with the eldubs; so I guess he eventually manages to see porn even without Internet
This poor devil also suffers from clinical depression. As if that weren't enough, he chooses to add to that the burden of confessing every once in a while to the 'shepherds'. Typical example of how the WTS's Inquisition-style, cultish modus operandi drives those poor subjects to mental and emotional devastation.
i was thinking about how so many posters here on jwn are frustrated and frantic to help their loved ones get away from the brainwashing of jws, and how much advice is given about how to help family members and loved ones.
i considered my own leaving and that it was internal turmoil based on the teachings getting weirder and child abuse issues, to name just a few, and it made me wonder:.
did you self-awaken or were you assisted by the gentle proddings of a friend or family member?
I awakened on my own. I stumbled on a scientific presentation that addressed the problem of science denial, and dealt with the problem of evolution denial, especially. That contradicted what I was told by the WT literature, i.e. that evolution is a "theory in crisis" and "not accepted by everyone". I came in front of the fact that evolution is a completely proven theory, opposed only on religious grounds. I examined the facts myself, I cross-referenced them with the hilarious claims of the Creation book, thus coming to the conclusion that a) Evolution is true, and b) WTS is deliberately LYING when refering to evolution, knowingly using huge fallacies and falsehoods to support their theology.
i certainly wouldn't.
and if the elders wanted to have a meeting with me, i would respectfully decline.
if the elders wanted to deal with you, would you talk with them?.
Nope. No way :)
so i asked my wife to take the "spiritual belief system" quiz online.
now, this is not claiming to be a scientifically accurate system to determine your religious affiliation, but i thought it would be an interesting exercise.. for those who haven't seen it, the questionnaire is here:.
http://www.selectsmart.com/religion/.
Yeah, it's accurate all right. I put in the answers that would have represented me a few years back (when I was a believer) and it yielded 100% JW.
Of course, had I put my current non-beliefs it would surely yield 100% secular/atheist...
i found this article interesting & just wanted to share.
after going through my teenage years trying to be the perfect jw, i realized that trying to live up to the standards imposed on me have been for worse & not for better.
i was feeling miserable, repressed, unfulfilled, with a great lack of self confidence & self esteem.
"An unhealthy mixture of pride, fear, and guilt"
THAT phrase sums up the entire life of a JW.
Excellent article.
stupid me does not know how to copy paste pics from instagram site.
nmh.
http://instagram.com/p/vbu5_xhiam/.
Man, I'm gonna puke.
i've read conflicting things so was hoping to get this clarified.. .
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One year of inactivity is too little. You can still be DF'ed, if a JC offense exists and is proved, just like any active jw.
The only exception that I remember from the elders handbook is this: if one is inactive for MANY years (i.e. more than 10) and if he lives in ANOTHER area, different from the one he used to be active, and NO-ONE in that new area identifies/knows him as a JW, only then a JC wouldn't need to be formed, because that person would be the same as a worldly person anymore.
But, one year of inactivity? In the same area? In an area where you are known by the neighbours as a witness (regardless of standing)? JC forming is almost certain, provided of course that you commited a DF offense.
this is what somebody has been telling me, trying to convince me aside from anything one can say or cause reason for doubt, as the evidence that they are the true religion and true people of god.
they are convinced because while 'all other' christian and other religions support war, troops, etc, jw's don't and they are the only one's who carry god's name and preach.
nothing else matters.
JWs don't go to war, not because they are pacifists, but because they consider themselves citizens of "God's government" and thus cannot serve in another government's army. If Jehovah recruited them in His armed forces, be sure they would sign in and take the sword to slain unfaithful ones. Jehovah's Witnesses "of old times" (i.e. Israelites) did just that, when they (so the myth goes) conquered Canaan. Besides, they expect from Jehovah's "government" to bring Armageddon, which is a total war, as total as it can be, and bring the violent death of about 7 billion people worldwide, the 99.9% of the world population. ALL JWs expect that, and almost all are comfortable with that. Is that their idea of "hating war"? Ridiculous claim.
As for the preaching stuff, a load full of Christian denominations do more or less the same thing: Door to door (Mormons), handing leaflets, tracts, brochures (almost all of them), web sites, TV stations, TV net broadcasting, the list is endless (and valueless).
must admit i didn't know a lot about the mormon church, so i decided to spend my saturday night exploring them on you tube.
after having viewed it i reckon the watchtower dosnt even come close to the scandal and total bs that surrounds the mormon church.
this is just 2 examples.
Pessimistic note:
Mormons are far more wackier than the JWs, but they are still around; which means that the WTS is not likely to 'go down' any time soon.