Nah, I'm just noticing a tendency for parents and children who have poor relationships with each other, due to their own actions, who then blame it on leaving (or staying) in the JW religion. But I guess you can call 'em insensitive brats if you want. You made 'em, you raised 'em. I'm guessing that apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
And yes, my mother caused a tremendous amount of damage to our relationship with her unwarranted name-calling. Fortunately, she learned to not do that. We missed quite a few years while she was figuring out how to treat her children respectfully though.
Not that I expect my words or experiences to have any effect on your actions, but somewhere down the line when your kids are still avoiding you, and you are still calling them names and imputing wrong motives, you might think about how things got that way. Or... you could just keep calling names, scapegoating the WT, and taking no responsibility for your lack of respect having some impact on the problem.
BTW, this isn't based on just this post. I've seen you bad-mouth your daughters for a long time. Yes, sometimes you brag on them, but it really seems like you think they're pretty worthless human beings. I feel sorry for them.