I did address that, Viviane, see my 2nd and 3rd to last paragraphs.
I read those. You are trying to make the case for a first of a species and then prop it up by describing a population evolving. As you said, you can't have your cake and eat it too.
The suggestion that there can be no first human because everything evolved from something else seems to me to suggest that there are no humans at all.
That's not the suggestion. It's that speciation occurs is a population, not an indivual. Why is that so hard to grasp?
Either there are species which can be defined, and one of those species, H. sapiens, has a nickname, "human", or there are no clear species distinctions and therefore no such things as humans. In this way of looking at things, there is only life, and some life can interbreed, and some cannot. Wikipedia says:
That's been brought up several time, mainly bu Cofty and myself to point out some of the errors in the suggested tests and the arbitrary nature of terms.