Posts by TattoodJess25

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ANYONE IN THE WESTERN NY AREA?

by TattoodJess25 in

i just wanted to see if there are any df'd peeps in the rochester or canandaigua, ny area.

if so, im or e-mail me at [email protected].

jessica .

TattoodJess25

I just wanted to see if there are any DF'd peeps in the Rochester or Canandaigua, NY area. If so, IM or E-mail me at [email protected].

JESSICA

Canandaigua, NY

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Your Ideal Partner...

by Gadget in

dr pawlowski from wroclaw university, poland, has found that the perfect height ratio to find your ideal partner.

aparently the man should be 1.09x taller than the woman.

this would give my ideal partner height at 5ft, which more than half of my girlfriends have been!!!.

I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now and we live an hour and a half apart. We knew what we were getting into as far as the long-distance relationship thing. But we never thought we would care for each other as much as we do. We only get together once every 2 or 3 months so by the time he is here I am "revved". I am 25 and he is 33. I seem to have more of a sex drive than he does. But I try to "work with it" and I do a LOT of self-gratification. The only problem is, I care so much about keeping him happy that I am left "hanging". I have only had an orgasm with oral. I have never had an orgasm with regular intercourse. We have even tried a few different ways to do that. Well, the last three or four times he has come to visit me, he hasn't performed oral on me and so every time we have sex, I end up finishing after he goes to clean up. I am not sure if he cares for me any more. I have gained a little bit of weight since we met but he says that doesn't bother him. I have very low self-esteem and very high sex drive. The major problem is.....in the past, I have gotten so worked up when he is here, not satisfied, he leaves, and within a week or two I end up cheating on him with men as well as women. Then I feel like ABSOLUTE S**T. What do I do??? I really think I love him but I am not sure how to be satisfied with him. He is only 5'7 and I usually go for guys 6'0 or more. So he's not even my "type" but I still love him, lol. And to make matters worse, he makes little of-the-cuff comments about not wanting kids and basically alluding to the fact that he is not ready to settle down (marriage) so I have no clue what he wants from me. I have asked him where we are going and he says we're stuck right now because of our distance thing but he wants it to be more. He just doesn't want to commit to a real answer. HELP me understand. :(

JG
Canandaigua, NY

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How many of you went to the elders when you / someone did something wrong ?

by run dont walk in

i've read a lot of threads of late, where people stated when they did something wrong they would go the elders the next day and confess.. i find this truly bizzare !!!.

okay, maybe i didn't have a conscience as a jw, i did alot of things wrong, but, that would be the f--kin' day i would go to the elders and confess anything.

i would never tell those old goots anything, because then they would have something to hang over you for a long time.

TattoodJess25

I have to admit, when I was disfellowshipped, I was the one that went to the elders to tell them what I had been doing for like 6 months before that. I suppose it was because I was taught to admit when I do things wrong, ESPECIALLY if it was to effect my "standing with God". Consequently, I was "removed from the Christian Congregation". That was December 23, 2000. The only reason I remeber that is because it was my sister's birthday, not that they celebrated, lol.

Jessica G./Canandaigua, NY