Yes HERE. helping etc... But where does that end? week after week of the same and burnout follows swiftly with depression , suicide, financial despair for those left behind.
The times I have entered a kh and immediately had the gaze away greeting followed by 'where is (wife)'.. ( was aside talking). Ever obsessed that couples must be seen in micron proximity. helping? encouraged. Not when the big news is the state of relationships. Once when having a pre meeting convo I dropped the word ..'separated' into my convo. Amid all the babble three different sisters looked across the hall to make eye contact one from the diagonal opp corner. The other two were not even aware they had done it.
Is it any wonder about then i stopped talking to any of them just 'hello', 'hows the baby', nod 'thats nice' and sit down face into bible.