Prisca,
You and I seem to be getting along - so please be assured this post is NOT aimed at you.
If I were to use the term "you think like a jw" to my Baptist neighbor, he wouldn't have a clue.
Say it to a jw or jw wannabe, they'd say "thank you."
Say it to an xjw -and it's "hey......."
I think lots of good things have been said, but that's never stopped me from commenting before.
The Black/White thinking is intense, and sometimes complete. You're wrong, I'm right - because God is right and I follow God. How do I know? Because the Society proved it from the Bible and their right. How do I know? Because they proved it to me so I'm right.
Our ability to "click off" is enormous. Evolution? Nope. Don't even need to discuss it - didn't happen. I know. How? The Society proved it to me - they quoted lots of scientists and they know. How do I know this? They told me so.
And this was brought out before - we're sooooo disdainful of other's viewpoints. "Poor ignorant people." Tsk, tsk. "We know because the Society has taught us from the Bible......everybody else is wrong.....we have The Truth."
We looked down on absolutely everybody else as religiously ignorant/blinded - otherwise, they'd come into the Truth, now wouldn't they?
I think it takes time to mellow - in and out of The Truth, and a lot of effort to allow others freedom of viewpoint. Like Larc said about human nature - we all have points we don't discuss well.
waiting