Thank you IC. I was reading some of it just a while ago. That's what I feel now, Like; I know I have an identity. I know I am my own person but, when being told throughout your life that ,"as long as you're one of us; THAT is your identity". It lowered my self worth, I hated being different with no logical explaination from the bible since they picked and chose certain verses to fit them when they pleased. Yeah, I really did have the rug pulled out from underneath me.