If it was legal, would you have more then one spouse? (page 2)

damselfly

*sniff* Aw, you broke my heart.

tee hee! I feel bad/ I don't feel bad

Dams

IMustBreakAway

Not one man and seven women.. ;-) but lets make it 8. 4 guys and 4 gals.. Like the cast of friends but they all have sex together to.

I know people who are unmarried and polyamorous and they seem to be perfectly content. Although it does seem to be an awful amount of constant work in dealing with so many intimate relationships and differing personalities.

I'm tolerant... no, welcoming of different ways of obtaining happiness in relationships in untraditional ways. As a single man, I enjoy trying out my options, dating this girl, or that. But when I meet another woman I consider marrying, she is going to have to knock me off of my feet, fulfill me utterly and vice versa. And when that happens, why would I possibly want another. Fulfillment is fulfillment. You can't get more full than full.

(edit: In some ways I see my ideal spoken here as being naive. In other ways, I can't see losing the dream.)

tetrapod.sapien

lol, what a funny thread....

In any sense, would you, if it were legal, would you have more then one spouse?

no. but i have nothing against f*ck buddies.

ts

AlmostAtheist

Dave if you were a wee bit older and I was a wee bit younger I might consider it - just for the humor factor
but seriously NO WAY.

Lot's o' heart break on this thread!

Dave

JH

This is where morality comes into play.

funkyderek

Not if it meant having more than one mother-in-law

damselfly

Everyones morality is different. I think it would be possible to still live a moral life and have multiple partners or just casual f*ck buddies. Sex is sex, it doesn't make you immoral in my books.

Dams

JH

As a man who loves pleasure, bring em on. The more the better.

But as a spiritual person, I know what fornication and adultery means.

daystar

This is where morality comes into play.

Your morality or mine, or hers, or theirs? Or a perception of a gods? What is morality except an opinion about how life should be lived? It's about judging "right" and "wrong".

Is it still morally wrong when someone does have two spouses and it works well and all people involved are fulfilled, happy and healthy?

If it was legal, would you have more then one spouse?

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