Ezra,
My soon to be ex-husband preached the same business, he's out in service for Jehovah. Then when he came home, he call me fat ass and say all sorts of horrible things to me, while I paid for the roof over the jerks head. I had said once before, out of about 200 I personally know, maybe 2 of them are real. When I think of how my confidential bible studies, weren't confidential, all the smiles and encouragement is fake to me.
I went to the elders for help with my marraige before ending it, and do you know they told me they couldn't help me because I wasn't baptized? And now they are treating me like I was, but i'm DF'd! How can you not call that hypocrasy?
I was born and raised around "worldly people" and most of the ones I know now, or better people the most JW's I know. Not to put you down, but it is just a fact