the lawmakers are trying to crack down on offenders and the people in the state are pusshing for tougher laws, It amazes me how long it's taking for the recognisition to get something done.
I am new to this site and a Non-JW, This stuff has been going on for many years in all walks of life, I think like one of th posters posted is moral and immoral standards changing? Think about this, When my ex mother in law was 15 she was married. So that was the norm for some women back then, and my ex- father in law was 10 years older than her, Back then that was the norm, Today he would be slapped in Jail and be labeled a pedofile. Jump to Todays times, We have girls and boys knowing way more than they should about things You have both sexes throwing themselves at one another. Let me ask you this, If a 18 year old or more in this country dates anyone under 18, and they kiss, fondle or have sex, they are breaking the law and if mom or dad find out don't like the boy for any reason he is thrown in Jail and made to carry a label for the rest of his life. Or depending on either sex, lets say it is consenual between the both parties, but the one legally of age for one reason or another wants out of the relationship, the ohter one is hurt and wants to figure out how to make him/her hurt so they cry out molestations, etc... again this person is arrested and taken to jail and is labeled a pedofile the rest of his / her life. Where do we draw the line? I honestly belive that there should be tougher laws I have five children of my own, However I don't belive in the system that Floirda has where everyone has the same label just because of instances like i have brought up. I also think there should be some pentatlies to the so called victims too some times. These teenagers know what they are doing. Sometimes the vicitms are the person being labeled as the pedofiles. We have become a society where children are raising themselves, they are over educated in some areas of life and under educated in others.
And just for a bit of painful info, I was raped when I was nineteen by the pastor in my non denominational church. Charges never brought against him ( my doing) because i never turned him in, thinking it was my fault. However the bible says justice is mine sayeth the Lord and within a couple of years the church crumbled, He lost his house and vehilces, his wife found out, He had tried starting up a church a few years later and could not get it going.
There are many pedofiles out there in many religions, the internet and media we have today helps up learn quicker about these things in the past. While we want tougher laws and some states getting them where are the parents in all this also. another instance i will share, my ex and I had seperated I ended up moving out and getting an apartment my 2nd child get diagnosed needing a double lung transplant and as put in the hospital for 10 months in a city 2 hours from where I live. I was living in that city with my daughter, my ex ends up living with my ex best friend and my oldest daughter did not want to do that, He gave her permission to live in my apartment while I was away she was 17. Not only that he gave her persmission to allow her 18 year old boyfriend who lived 5 hours away to come down for the weekend at my apartment. I hit the roof, my ex says well I trust my daughter, and i retorted with I trust my daugher to but I don't trust the ragging hormones in side my daughter or him. We have to not set our children up.
Okay sorry to get long winded but some thoughts i had while reading this post.