Anyone who has been following my situation may recall that it looks like the elder's are 'closing in' on wifey and I after having been out about two and a half years. I think they may force a showdown with a registered letter inviting me to the JC.
I don't care if they DF me. I am out for good. But I want to use this as an opportunity to show others in the local cult the need to think.
My idea is to send a letter of DA if I get pressed into that corner. But not to the elders directly. One copy to each member of the congregation whose address I can find, with a pleasant intro allowing them to think that I am using them as a personal courier, asking them to read the letter before they take it to the elders, since they were my friend and want them to know the reasons too.
My idea is to make the letter brief but pointed. I would like to incorporate stimulating questions about the five greatest concerns I have with the organization. [Those concerns are not as important as making them think about the way I state the issue] I want them to remember some of what my letter states until the Cognitive Dissonance sets in for them sometime in the future. If I can save even one it is worth it.
What I envision in the letter is the five questions in the body with bullets and highlights. As example;
- How could my conscience not react with disdain and distrust when I became aware of the 10 year association of the Watchtower society as a legal component of the United Nations NGO program beginning in 1992?
My idea is to state in the letter that should these serious doctrinal, moral and ethical issues be ever proven to me as false or of no serious concern, I would under those circumstances consider a total return to the organization. [Of course no one could succeed at that task - so no worry there] I hope that one or two would get busy 'researching' these things with a view to 'restoring' me or others that have left.
The end result may be that others will come out too. I want to present myself as having left over serious issues of conscience, and not out of rebellion of any sort. Kill 'em with kindness and careful reasoning.
I know it's shot in the dark. But does anyone have a list or just one or two foolproof questions that would stick with these people? I know of the pitfalls - but I want to take this final opportunity to maybe put a doubt in the minds of some.
Thanx for your help.
Jeff