Jwfacts,
Sometimes, this site is just so BIG and fast moving it's hard to keep up with, but, I'm not sure what could be changed. The very fact that so many read and comment here, practically ensures that almost every possible combination of JW issues will come around at some time.
In my case my JW wife divorced me with no scriptural grounds, according to the Elders and CO. I endured 5 years of separation and endless gossip and inuendo while the Elders set back and did almost nothing, but, 'take away her priviledges.' Wow. They don't get to do just a whole lot anyway.
My family may be permanently ruined, because I tried to "wait on Jah" and the Elders. All of my JW family was shunning me 'unofficially' when I decided after 7 years alone -- to remarry. First, I was not "free to remarry", 2nd, I was going to get "Unevenly yoked to an unbeliever," ya' know...an "evil, worldly & unclean thing", so, they all thought I would surely get DF'd for adultry -- like the elders said would happen.
My point is: How many situations like that could possibly exist, even among JW's ? I thought I was the only one in the world. Sadly, I wasn't, there were a few others whose situation had been as bad or worse. I can't tell you how important it was to find others that were 'in the same boat.' It was a help to me to see how others handled this and how they fared.
By that time in my life I knew 'something' was badly wrong with this religion. Reading so many thousands of personal experiences just helped me verify and solidify my own observations. I never knew 3/4 of what I know now...about the Witnesses and their history -- until I was out and on this site.
This is a good thread..thank you.
FatFreek, I hope you get to come and meet everyone. See ya' there !
Rabbit