lt,
i find it hard to believe that you could be embarrassed by anything. if your answer to my first post ("hmmm...nope,don't know you...") didn't embarrass you then what would? i thought your post sounded critical and es obviously thought you were being critical whether you thought so or not.
it really is sad that you think posters like parakeet, serendipity, kw13, fleur, es, and myself are predators because we appreciate someone thinking of us as more than something that came up on google. but that's your call.
if you feel the need to give into temptation, my advice is don't. the reason shooting fish in a barrel is so easy is the fish can't shoot back.
j2s