i never said i did not wish to understand why the attacks happened and will continue to happen, what i do not wish to understand or defend is the rejoicing over the murder of thousands of men women and children.
I don't think I took your words out of context - these situations go hand in hand. We were attacked beacuse they don't agree with our way of life. They rejoice at our suffering and death because they don't agree with our way of life.
I answer to your question: If I had a family member who was a plant manager at a factory who was hated by his employess and this member of my family was assaulted, raped, stabbed tortured and killed - how would I feel/react to seeing people rejoice?
My answer is two fold: 1) My opinion of and reaction to the killers are going to be very different than that of the employees. I think no mercy should be shown to the killer or peretrators of this crime. But I would want justice to come from the proper authorities against those particular individuals rather than a vigilanty sneak attack on their families. As to the employess rejoicing over my family members death, I wouldn't want to see it - but it does come down to why. Was he hated because he was a terrible manager and treated his employees badly - I would 'understand' their rejoicing - that doesn't mean I agree with it. Did he treat his employees fairly and was hated simply because he held a position of power, then I would feel vindicated in getting in their faces and telling them how inappropriate they are behaving.
Either way a modecum of understanding is necessary before I react. You are still treating the word 'understanding' with 'support'. I can understand why they react the way they do, and at the same time NOT support their actions.
As to adding my opinion to a 'solution', you can read back and see that I hold bin laden and his organization responsible. You can also read that I want them to be tried for their crimes. That doesn't necessarily mean I want the US to invade Afghanistan, but if he doesn't turn himself in we have to go in and get him. If he commited a crime against the people of the US, he must be held accountable, regardless of his reigious beliefs.
Unfortunately, because of his religious beliefs, his people don't think he is guilty of anything. And an invasion of Afghanistan is going to be seen by his supporters as an act of war where his actions are seen as a holy act.
Whatever we do or don't do, there will be positive and negative results. There is no other view to take if you look from both sides. If you only look at it from our side and disregard where they (innocent muslims in Afghanistan) are coming from you are thinking like the terrorists.