What more can they possibly take from her?

by ButtLight 35 Replies latest social family

  • juni
    juni

    Hugs buttlight.

    You are doing the right thing by having your mom there because it is hard on the family. You're to be commended for what all you are doing for your mom and your kids.

    I see where they are coming from w/the liabilities. Also, I agree she should be able to enjoy her vices since she is terminal. God, this is a hard one. I guess just keep doing what you're doing in talking w/the people there at the nursing home.

    Those nitwits for loosing the Power of Attorney paperwork.

    I wish you best sweetie. Take care of yourself!

    Hugs,

    Juni

  • ButtLight
    ButtLight

    Thanks everyone! Much appreciated!

    Its really hard loosing a parent. Of course I havent really lost her physically yet, but mentally, she is going fast. I had never heard of this disease myself, until they told me she had it. The clinic here is very large, and they have only had 5 cases total!

    I just read up on it a bit again, this is what the disease is about

    What is Corticobasal Degeneration?
    Corticobasal degeneration is a progressive neurological disorder characterized by nerve cell loss and atrophy (shrinkage) of multiple areas of the brain including the cerebral cortex and the basal ganglia. Corticobasal degeneration progresses gradually. Initial symptoms, which typically begin at or around age 60, may first appear on one side of the body (unilateral), but eventually affect both sides as the disease progresses. Symptoms are similar to those found in Parkinson disease, such as poor coordination, akinesia (an absence of movements), rigidity (a resistance to imposed movement), disequilibrium (impaired balance); and limb dystonia (abnormal muscle postures). Other symptoms such as cognitive and visual-spatial impairments, apraxia (loss of the ability to make familiar, purposeful movements), hesitant and halting speech, myoclonus (muscular jerks), and dysphagia (difficulty swallowing) may also occur. An individual with corticobasal degeneration eventually becomes unable to walk.

    Is there any treatment?
    There is no treatment available to slow the course of corticobasal degeneration, and the symptoms of the disease are generally resistant to therapy. Drugs used to treat Parkinson disease-type symptoms do not produce any significant or sustained improvement. Clonazepam may help the myoclonus. Occupational, physical, and speech therapy can help in managing disability.

    What is the prognosis?
    Corticobasal degeneration usually progresses slowly over the course of 6 to 8 years. Death is generally caused by pneumonia or other complications of severe debility such as sepsis or pulmonary embolism.

  • juni
    juni

    Thanks for educating me buttlight. My mother in law had Parkinsons, but she was 84 when she passed away.

    Sounds very similar. I'll be thinking of you sweetie!

    Hugs,

    Juni

  • ButtLight
    ButtLight

    Thanks juni!

    One thing I learned about this disease on my own was wierd. Her left and right side of the brain mix together signals sometimes, and whatever she does with her left hand her right hand does it too! I asked the doctor, and she said I was the first person that ever caught that. Very strange

  • Life Is Grand
    Life Is Grand

    I say hang in there and stick to your guns-if a drink every day won't physically harm her or mix badly with her medication, and the home she is in will allow you to "sneak" it into her, then just keep doing what you are doing.

    It's tough to see a parent, or anyone you love, who is lingering in sickness. My dad passed away at the age of 56, but died suddenly and quickly of a heart attack. It was hard not to be able to have the chance say goodbye to him, but I have since then seen both of my husbands parents pass away from cancer. It is so heartbreaking to see a disease slowly disable someone who was once such a vibrant human being. Words can't even describe the pain. In retrospect, I would rather have them go quickly like my dad did-I will always remember him as he was the last time I saw him-full of life.

    You have alot of very good friends on this board to lean on when times are tough...keep up the good work you are doing for your Mom.

    LIG

  • Nathan Natas
    Nathan Natas
    She got a letter from my moms doctor saying...

    Your mother is not the property of that doctor.

    Ask at the home for the name of a "cooperative" doctor, and get your Mom in to see him (a formality) then tell Doctor X that he is fired.

  • ButtLight
    ButtLight
    In retrospect, I would rather have them go quickly like my dad did

    You know, I was going to say that about my mom, but didnt want it to sound harsh. But I hope that by the time her memory is gone, she passes from something that will take her fast. That may sound terrible to some, but I would hate to see her last for a long time, not even knowing me!

  • JH
    JH

    It's not easy seeing a loved one go down hill like that, especially when they are too young for that.

    ((((Buttlight))))

  • Life Is Grand
    Life Is Grand

    I don't think there is anything harsh or terrible about not wanting someone you love dearly to suffer and linger on for months and months. Once they no longer know who you are anymore and if they are in alot of pain, it would only be merciful for the pain to end for them as soon as possible.

    There is no quality of life left for them at that point and it is so hard for those who are left to take care of them to watch them struggle. I recall feeling relief when my husbands parents finally passed away-I felt really guilty for feeling that way, but I was just so glad that they were in a better place.

  • chiddy
    chiddy

    Corticobasal Degeneration is a tragic condition which subjects sufferers to shrinkage of the brain, but does anyone know the opposite condition, where the brain expands? Does it mean you become more clever?

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