AK - Jeff,
How bittersweet. I read all of your letter- it is so very well written and I truely hope that your friend takes the time not only to read it but to think on everything you addressed.
Your last time there with your friend in the coffee shop was very heart-rending. Bittersweet- I hope that you guys will be able to talk again.
-K
I will be turning in my resignation today.
by AK - Jeff 54 Replies latest jw experiences
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Kudra
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greendawn
Well done you are leaving the cult officially after expressing to them that you no longer wish to be part of it. They've just lost one more member for being so unchristian in their behaviour.
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crazyblondeb
Jeff,
I know it must have been a little hard. But I hope now u r feeling a large weight off your shoulders!! You should celebrate. This is the first day, of the rest of your life!! Just reading what you did made me feel so proud of you, and of all of us!!
shelley
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juni
I'm thinking of you Jeff. 40 years as a JW carries with it a lot of history. Hopefully he will really think about what you wrote. Perhaps one day he will be out the door also.
Be kind to yourself and do some fun things. By posting your experience you have helped others perhaps to take that step. I commend you for the loving manner in which you dealt with your departure.
Juni
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TheKings
handled like a true gentleman. poignant...i wish i had that sort of tact.
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AuldSoul
(((Jeff))),
I know it wasn't easy to finally do this. But the way you have done it, in large measure due to being able to vent, could have incredibly far-reaching impacts. The fact that he said he would hold the door open for you proves he doesn't think you are wicked. This must have been already troubling him, anyway, that they were conspiring to remove you as a wicked man.
Perhaps he will read it now. Perhaps when he hears of your letters, he will read it. Perhaps when he has to answer the questions of whoever else reads your letter, perhaps then he will read it. And who knows who else might read it?
You have done the most you can, you have offered a chance, you have shown a way out. Who could ask any more from you, even that was more than required. You have every reason to be proud.
Respectfully,
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AlmostAtheist
>>"Good day for a cup of hot coffee, isn't it?" My last words to him "Yes it is".
It hurts to see their humanity peeking thru the Watchtower armor, doesn't it? They are all human, and mostly nice folks. It's just that damn cult that screws their heads up. And their hearts.
Sorry Buddy, but well handled.
Dave
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FlyingHighNow
This weekend I noticed a greater sense of life and freedom than I have felt before. I think I really needed this closure, though I thought I didn't.
You deserve to have peace and freedom, especially with the sacrifices you are making personally to take care of your grandchildren. I'm sl glad you aren't giving the jerk elder that kind of power over you. Big hugs to you. Take care.
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HappyDad
Jeff,
You're going to be just fine. Congratulations on your relief and freedom.
HappyDad
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Kaput
Jeff --
Been there, felt that. It was time to put down the book you've been reading for most of your life and pick up a new one. I think you'll enjoy the new story. After all...it's about YOU now.