bye bye

by Devilsnok 32 Replies latest jw friends

  • diamondblue1974
    diamondblue1974

    Not usually into these sorts of threads but I can see how you must feel.

    Given how you treated her and how she treated you in return I would say you were wasted on her....take some time out but come back.

    I agree with LT in the forgiving yourself aspect; sometimes we beat ourselves up for things we were powerless against - there is no point, if you feel guilt, learn from it and move on

    DB74

  • tijkmo
    tijkmo

    i'm feeling ya......

    been there

    done that

    moved on

    still here

    and i dont think i would have done it without all at jwd

    sticking around wont do ya no harm

  • Clam
    Clam

    Devilsnok there's a guy on another forum going through exactly the same thing. I'll get his details because it could be good to chat.

    PS Don't go!

  • AK - Jeff
    AK - Jeff

    You ultimately must decide, mate, with whom you will spend time. We hope you stick around.

    There will be some come along, who have in your words 'messed up my life' in the same way you think you have. They will need people like you to aid them through this thing.

    As for me, I have not started thumping my Bible yet from your story. I see a human, dealing with a terrific blow leaving a cult.

    Your call. I hope your stick around and aid, where others like myself, without that experience cannot.

    Jeff

  • greendawn
    greendawn

    Wishing you all the best, there are plenty of women out there and you can always find another one so no need to worry about the previous one.

  • Mary
    Mary
    I didn’t want to go without saying goodbye, to all those people that have mattered over the years and that have had me roaring with laughter too, Lee, Mary, Gumby, Gary, Deliliah, Debs/ Nelly, Karl, Luna, Froggie, Miss P etc…

    Matt, I hope you reconsider leaving, but ultimately you have to do what you think is best for you. This is a wonderful site for helping people heal. You've got my email address if you ever want to drop me a line.

    Take care sweetie,

    hugs,

    Mary

  • unclebruce
    unclebruce

    g'day matt,

    you've made some damn fine friends here and people appreciate you for just being you. I'm truly saddened to learn what you're going through.

    warmest regards,

    Lee aka unc

    [email protected]

  • misspeaches
    misspeaches

    (((Matt))) I understand. And I'm sorry. Sometimes the hurt just gets too much.

    So you made a mistake, not one person here has the right to condemn you for it. We all have screwed up at some time in our lives. I am just sorry to hear that you are hurting and seem to have gotten the raw end of the deal.

    I hope you heal fast. That this experience is simply that. And not a life changing event.

    Peace be with you Matt. Should you ever need a listening ear, or someone to chat with, PM me anytime.

  • garybuss
    garybuss

    Stick around Devilsnok, we need ya here.

  • delilah
    delilah

    I miss ya already Matt....please let us know that you're alright, from time to time....I wish you'd stay. You may not need us, right now, but, We need you.....

    ~Hugs to you, friend....May you find yourself, and inner peace, and contentment.

    ~Delilah xx

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