Jeffro: But it is a bit of a stretch from there to assert that the Witnesses don't stress the importance of Jesus in their theology.
I understand what you are saying, as up until about four months ago I would have argued identically. However, I have recently come to understand it from the other side of the coin, too.
I think the division in communication comes from the fact that Christians largely consider belief in Jesus to be demonstrated through seeking a relationship with Jesus.
Given this, a religion pursuing any amount of recounting of facts about Jesus life, stating within entirely morphable doctrine that Jesus is our king, savior, redeemer, etc., and any other impersonal, iconic use of Jesus as a character could not make a Christian say that Jesus is in the theology as a person. In every sense JWs use Jesus as nothing more than a doctrinal figurehead. One to whom they cannot even speak. He may as well be carved of wood for all the interaction JWs have with him.
{edit: After considering it further, in a way Jesus is carved of wood for JWs. Their only personal interaction with Jesus is through the words printed on the paper pages of the Bible. This is not the case with Christians.}
I think it is the JW viewpoint that acknowledging the existence of Jesus = belief in Jesus that makes many who defend JWs on this point fail to grasp where Christians are coming from with this criticism. I have changed the wording for some Christians who criticized along these lines, so that they could communicate the real problem they saw to JWs more correctly.
JWs believe Christ exists but that Christians cannot have any relationship with him. From a Christian's perspective, Jesus may as well not exist in such a theology. I think you can probably see why they might feel that way.
{edit: I agree with you that there is ample fodder that is more directly contrary to the Bible or that is more directly internally inconsistent, and there should be no need for an informed person to resort to this line of argument at all. At least not until the person has demonstrated that they are contemplating rejecting the outright lies.}
Respectfully,
AuldSoul