Hey larc,[
Nice to meet you. Thanks for the info. Thankfully the pamphlets go back further than I do. My first 50 copies was in 1977 I believe. I was never impressed with this type of work because you actually didn't try to speak with anyone more than a sentence.
Hey Jehu,
And when you think about it, the elders have more important things to worry about than oral sex, beards, and the hemlines on skirts
You would think that, wouldn't you? But during the times when the "fans are flying high speed" - these things are zeroed in on.
I don't know your age, but if you are/were married during the "oral sex controversary", your marriage could have been (and some were) terrible hurt. Many husbands/wives were angry with their mates refusal/aggressive to want oral sex - and other things, which went along those lines.
The elders should have had better things to do than be in bed with husbands/wives, don't you think? But the WTBTS was there too, passing judgement on marriages, disrupting marriages, and then finally, walking away from the damage they did. Many jw's in our area are still confused on this issue, and will not give their own conscience opinion.
Btw, you completely sidestepped the point of the comment. The point of the comment was that after research, questioning the elders is common. We are taught to go to the elders - even about sex with our mates.
The elders, as recently as a week ago, are still being counseled to look closely at sister's legs for violations of rules.
All jw's were encouraged to not to speak to family members disfellowshipped by the WTBTS.
You brought up the point of beards. A WTBTS rule enforced aggressively in the usa. Perhaps you would be so kind as to explain why a brother cannot give talks or have responsibilities in the congregation if he has a beard, particularily since moustaches are accepted?
Thanks.
waiting