What do women REALLY want? (page 7)

confusedjw

Bro I haven't even bothered to read the posts in this thread, because the answer is "who knows". They want the opposite of me I can tell you that. A "bad boy" who treats them shitty. It really chaps my ass.

crazyblondeb

I want my daughter and granddaughter to be happy. I want to wake up with someone next to me. I want to laugh and see the humor in life. If I can't do that, I don't want to live. OH, and I want flip-flops, and red lipstick!!

CBB

Abandoned

Bro I haven't even bothered to read the posts in this thread, because the answer is "who knows". They want the opposite of me I can tell you that. A "bad boy" who treats them shitty. It really chaps my ass.

It's weird but it does turn out that way. Users usually have confidence and confidence is attractive. So, they usually end up getting someone they're only going to hurt.

I don't know if I care anymore though. That's not true. I do care, but I don't know if I care to direct any of my energy to these kinds of pursuits. In january 2006, I broke out of a dysfunctional relationship, quite a bit smarter, and swearing I'd never be with someone who wasn't right for me just because of loneliness. I'm sticking to that. I also sat down and wrote out my goals for 2006. The two big ones were to quit smoking and to get published. I did both. I quit smoking on 2/22/2006. I smoked my last cigarette at two o'clock in the afternoon. I liked the sound of 2/22 at two.

I had two of my articles published last year. One was a freebie and one was a handsome price for 600 words. I'm becoming more and more at ease with the possibility that I'll finish out my life alone. I could be with and have been with a lot worse company.

confusedjw

What did you get published? Stories, poems, text for ads, legal pleadings?

crazyblondeb

LOL You are so funny. Be glad I don't feel like typing a term paper!! DAMN!! ABA you are a great guy!! Now, get off you butt, and act like it!!

I love ya-shell

Abandoned

What did you get published? Stories, poems, text for ads, legal pleadings?

I'll post my two stories here. I just need to format them.

LOL You are so funny. Be glad I don't feel like typing a term paper!! DAMN!! ABA you are a great guy!! Now, get off you butt, and act like it!!
I love ya-shell

You're a sweetheart.

Lumptard

They want that thing in your pants.................your wallet....j/k...

..seriously though, everyone wants something different. Its hard to say what women in general want because everyone wants something different.

RAF

Actually what I really do appreciate in any kindof relationship with others is COMPLICITY

I look like someone very easy to approach but I'm not. I have a lone personality and somehow it can be dissapointing. Also I have my moments when I feel the need to share way more and it's not understandable then for those who know me and then don't really understand WHAT - WHEN ...

If sometimes I feel to let myself go (for whatever, when the feeling is very strong and I can't fight against it) ... The fact is that I'm even more ambarassed in getting into a real relationship (friend or whatever) When those persones deverses my attention for them being nice to me, that's when I'm really really really scared to dissapointing them - most of the time I'm stucked, I just don't know if I should help the relation to developpe - it takes time and sometimes when I've made my mind it's too late - but it feel alright like that - just not knowing what it would have lead me to.

All that to say that complicity actually means to me a very "wide" rang of understanding (we can fight, we can desagree, we can forget about each other for years), but the complicity that we can share (in a way or another depending on each onces situation at any moment) stays intact.

moshe

In the beginning women desire 5 things from a man:

- security, mutual companionship,sex,children, love- these are minimum wants.

An unmarried 40 year old woman might settle for 4 or even 3 out of 5 on this list.

Some women have a very large shopping list- inquire early on as to it's contents to avoid disappointment.

One lady once told me she would never marry a man who wasn't a good ballroom dancer . Even though I was a good dancer, I felt this was a narrow minded attitude and changed partners, so to speak. What would happen in say 20 years , if I could no longer dance?- was she going to find a new partner? Another lady said her man must have horses, so I didn't waste my time on a date with her, either. Ask the important questions early and you will get more truthful answers from the person you are interested in.

Women are often willing to go out on dates and have men spend money on them, even though they know that a man doesn't have a snowballs chance in you know where in getting to first base with them. Men are willing to go out on dates and spend money on attractive women trying to get to first base, knowing that the woman has a snowballs chance in ####, in getting her shopping list filled.

Good luck!

FlyingHighNow

They want the opposite of me I can tell you that. A "bad boy" who treats them shitty. It really chaps my ass.

Women do not want to be treated shitty. How many times do we have to tell you this? We want to be treated as equal adults. We want confident men with a backbone. Some women are attracted to men who end up treating them shitty. That's not the same thing as saying women want to be treated shitty. I've said this many times on JWD.

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