To JH:
When I became a JW' I used to see people ask for money for this or that reason like at bank entraces or grocery stores for charity or any good cause and I used to give some money to them before being a witness, but they told us at the hall NOT to give money to them. That the money we give isn't the solution to their problem. Only the Kingdom will solve all the problems. So from then I felt obliged to listen to the elders and not give anything.
Wow! That’s ridiculous.
This is a classic example of “Elders Gone Wild”. Nowhere, and I do mean NOWHERE, is there a JW policy stating that we can’t give to charities (with the exception of religious charities and charities that violate our Christian neutrality ...i.e. “donate to get body armor for our troops” ). I donated money to the hurricane Katrina disaster fund myself. What JW’s choose to do with there money is totally up to them.
The GB knows of this “Elders Gone Wild” problem and they are consistently telling the CO’s to reign in these wayward Elders. A recent “Elder School” point blank told the Elders that they are not Handling matters, especially Judicial matters, correctly. It also stressed the need for Elders not to interject their opinions into what the Org has giving them to teach the flock.
This problem is so big, that the Org is going, IMHO, to the other extreme of overly restricting what elders are to say, teach and think. Which in turn creates a Crisis of Conscience for the GOOD liberal and open mind elders, who wish to express themselves more to the congregation. That’s one reason why we see an unprecedented increase of Elders resigning.
People don’t realize how hard it is right now to be an Liberal Elder. The Conservative Elders are flourishing under this strict system because they are very disciplined and enjoy carefully laid out paths. For a healthy congregation, life, even government, we need a healthy balance of Conservatives and Liberals working together. If all the Liberals give up the “fine fight” we will be in BIG trouble. Stereotypically Conservative Elders bring us order, structure and consistency. Stereotypically Liberal Elders bring us love, joy and new ideas. We need BOTH to survive.
Sorry for the rant, but this a something I’m very passionate about.
I was very generous and known to be generous, they didn't respond in kind. I saw no love. I didn't want charity, I wanted to hear brothers say, how can I help you. come, Ill share a cleaning contract with you, or something like that. That didn't happen so I didn't see any love. Then I quit going to meetings.
That’s sad. But based on your description of the unbalanced leaders of your congregation, I’m not surprised. The Flock usually follows their Shepherd, sometimes over a cliff. And because of them, we lost a ‘salt of the earth’ generous soul like yourself. But know that Jehovah, who looks on in secret, did not forget a single one of your generosities… and HE will repay you in full, just like he did with all of his other mistreated servants of old, as long as you don’t forsake him.
Agape,
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Sola Scriptura
"A simple layman armed with Scripture is greater than the mightiest pope without it"
-Martin Luther