So, come on then Crumples,
Let's have your answers then!
tim
End of quarter 1 Review - survey/poll/quiz - fluffyish
by Crumpet 27 Replies latest jw experiences
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fullofdoubtnow
Here's mine
Mentally: 5 Well free of the wts now, but a few other worries at present
Financially: 10 No problems there at all
Emotionally: 9 I have had so much support, not much of a problem
Sexually: 10 For the weekend
Friendships: 10 I have many more genuine friends now than I ever had as a jw
Family relationships: 8 I get on fairly well with my brother
Work/Occupation/Education: 6 I am ok with my job, but I have been thinking of a career change for a while
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Crumpet
So, come on then Crumples,
Let's have your answers then!
tim
I already did - about third or fourth post in the thread! ((((Linda)))) Am glad some things are going your way honey!
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juni
Mentally: 8
Financially: 10
Emotionally: 8
Sexually: nun status -0
Friendships: 10
Family relationships: 8
Work/Occupation/Education retired from original occupation, looking into furthuring education and doing work that I can handle w/my limitations.
Juni
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Sad emo
Mentally: That's a sliding scale for me so maybe a 5
Financially: 7
Emotionally: 8 with the odd blip of around 2!
Sexually: Another nun/hermit here!! 0
Friendships: 9
Family relationships: 6
Work/Occupation/Education: 3 - enjoyable but stressful
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Crumpet
HELLO! Ladies and Gents - being a hermit/nun does not mean you cannot be sexually in touch with yourself. Thats why I have rated it as an 8 because before the end of my relationship I felt it was closer to a 2. Sexuality is not just about who shares your bed. It can be worked on and improved hermit or not. I live on my own too remember and no I've not had any visitors!!!! What happened to self-love?
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brunnhilde
Hmmmm, things are fairly fluid at the moment so given to change without any notice, but here goes: Mentally: I'd have to say 7. Sleep deprivation is a bitch! Financially: Also a 7. In debt for school, etc, but nothing I can't manage. Emotionally: Dealing with a LOT of fallout from the dubs, so periods of ecstatic joy followed by periods of rage, grief and fear. Also going through a divorce, so that adds to the rollercoaster ride. 5 Sexually: Just got hit on by a smart sexy woman and though I don't swing that way, it was flattering as all get out, lol! 7 Friendships: I have a small but very solid and supportive circle of friends. 9 Family relationships: Huh, I am reestablishing a relationship with my older brother for the first time in twenty years and I can't believe how much joy that brings me. Conversely my parents are growing more and more distant but I can't exactly say I regret that. 7 Work/Occupation/Education: This definitely is a 10. I love my job, I'm going to uni, which is what I've always wanted and I love it. Things are definitely improving. I think so many of us essentially put our lives on hold while we were dubs. There was no growth personally or emotionally. Everything was static and we refused to acknowledge reality, though that goes without saying. It might be worse in the short term, but there is no doubt in my mind the further from the dubs I get, the healthier and better my life will be! Great topic, Crumpet! and cheers for all of us who are moving on and living real lives away from the evil empire!!
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brunnhilde
Can somebody PLEASE help me out with formatting?? I have no idea how to get returns and stuff in there *sigh*
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Sad emo
Brunnhilde's post with breaks hopefully! - Hmmmm, things are fairly fluid at the moment so given to change without any notice, but here goes: Mentally: I'd have to say 7. Sleep deprivation is a bitch! Financially: Also a 7. In debt for school, etc, but nothing I can't manage. Emotionally: Dealing with a LOT of fallout from the dubs, so periods of ecstatic joy followed by periods of rage, grief and fear. Also going through a divorce, so that adds to the rollercoaster ride. 5 Sexually: Just got hit on by a smart sexy woman and though I don't swing that way, it was flattering as all get out, lol! 7 Friendships: I have a small but very solid and supportive circle of friends. 9 Family relationships: Huh, I am reestablishing a relationship with my older brother for the first time in twenty years and I can't believe how much joy that brings me. Conversely my parents are growing more and more distant but I can't exactly say I regret that. 7 Work/Occupation/Education: This definitely is a 10. I love my job, I'm going to uni, which is what I've always wanted and I love it. Things are definitely improving. I think so many of us essentially put our lives on hold while we were dubs. There was no growth personally or emotionally. Everything was static and we refused to acknowledge reality, though that goes without saying. It might be worse in the short term, but there is no doubt in my mind the further from the dubs I get, the healthier and better my life will be! Great topic, Crumpet! and cheers for all of us who are moving on and living real lives away from the evil empire!!
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Sad emo
What happened to self-love?
But Crumpet, i don't want to go blind
or get hairy hands
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