What's this business of "submitting to a religion"? What's wrong with just going and enjoying what you get out of it? Are you sure its not some residue of WTS belief that makes you think that by walking in the door of a church / synagogue / temple you are submitting to something??? Its worth trying sometime - it can be very cathartic!
I agree with you there Ross.
I haven't been to church much since I left the watchtower, just a couple of times to support my friend Marion, and the first time I went, about 6 - 7 months ago, I must admit I had what I now recognise as a completely irrational fear of becoming involved again. Actually,I've enjoyed both visits, and would probably go again. In some ways, going there like taking another step along the way of my journey away from the wtbts. The congregation were very friendly, happy to see me, but made no attempt to coerce me into getting involved, which was what I was afraid would happen when I initially agreed to go.
Looking at it now, I guess it was some residue, as you put it, of my watchtower experience that caused the feelings I had about going there. There was nothing to fear at all, as it turned out.
Linda