Hi Lavendar! Love your alias!
I will never forget this incident which happened many years ago. It brought me to tears.
I started my presentation to a lady at the door and she started lambasting the JWs as her daughter had been a witness and had committed suicide. I couldn't go on w/my presentation. I had a huge lump in my throat and the tears started coming as she told the story. Her daughter had been DFed. All I could say was, "I'm sorry." And I wished her a good day and left. I did not "witness" the rest of the time for that day. It tore me up inside.
But it was years later before I left. The seed had been planted.
Juni