It sucks to be hurt on purpose ...

by reneeisorym 55 Replies latest jw friends

  • Hortensia
    Hortensia

    sounds really pretty. I agree, a JW song about how submissive women ought to be is not the best choice foryour wedding. I'll looking up your myspace photos - I always think weddings are a nice thing - everyone is so happy and hopeful! I was afraid you might not answer my question - a little too nosy? But I'm glad you shared.

    the bouquet is beautiful, I love those big pink lilies.

  • mouthy
    mouthy

    Wonderful arrangements The family is sure missing out!!!!! Thanks for sharing (HUG)

  • Good Girl or Bad Girl?
    Good Girl or Bad Girl?

    I'm so sorry you are being treated so terribly by your own flesh and blood, Renee! I hope they don't do too many things they will only live to regret. I hope your special day is absolutely wonderful!!!

  • reneeisorym
    reneeisorym

    Oh thank you so much. You all are just precious. Update: My mother sent me another e-mail after a week of silence to say: "I quit my job and found a new one far away. I have to get out of here." So...I asked where and I got: "Don't worry about me" So I asked where again .... to get not response. I would love for the drama to just stop. I think she wants me to worry.

  • YoursChelbie
    YoursChelbie

    Maybe your mom just feels a tad jealous that you're married life is beginning and hers is coming to disappointing end. That's not very mature: she should be happy for you.

    Try not to worry too much about her. Maybe she'll see the light about her religion eventually when she realizes that "worldly" couples can be happy and committed to each other. Just let her know if she wants to talk, she knows how you can be reached. In time she might open up to you more.

    YC

  • reneeisorym
    reneeisorym

    yeah its gotta suck to think you are right but see my life working and hers is miserably failing yet she has the "troof"

  • SPAZnik
    SPAZnik

    yes it does suck to be hurt on purpose.

    as for them returning the invitations....
    yeah....that's something christ would do, fer sure.
    that's exactly how he treated people...
    wait a minute, no it isn't....

    sounds like your mom is drawing a line in the sand.
    good for her.

  • SPAZnik
    SPAZnik

    next time your mom says don't worry about me, say "don't tell me what to do, dammit, I love you. The drama of not knowing creates more worry than anything. But if you are somehow distrustful right now while you go through such monumental change, I understand. Whenever you are ready to let me know, let me know. I won't ask again."

  • SPAZnik
    SPAZnik

    Good idea Scully, about the postcard.

    I had envisioned returning the envelope again, with writing on the outside for all the world to see how jehovah's people behave.

  • reneeisorym
    reneeisorym

    I think my mother is nuts. I got this at lunch:

    Hey baby, give me some of those fancy words that tells what I do here at the bank to add to my resume.

    Now I'm "baby" that she wants something....

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