Run! Run! Run! Run as fast and far as you can. Love will not fix everything. You have no idea what you could be bringing upon yourself and your family. What will you do when your children want to have a birthday party or attend a friend's birthday party but their mother tells them it is somehow dangerous to have cake with a bunch of 3-year-olds? What will you say when Santa or Father Christmas visits all of your children's friends but not your children?
What will you say if you have a child who is in a serious accident or has a serious illness for which blood transfusion is the only remedy and time is of the essence?
If you want to be with this person and are willing to accept the consequences, okay. But don't bring innocent children into this twisted scenario. Please!
Please post any questions or concerns here. We have been there, done that. Emotions are powerful, but many times must be overcome. Use your head, not your heart.
I'm sorry this post sounds so strident, but you're playing with wildfire.
Regards,
SandraC