Dear B
You are so off the mark with "Who are you"....it totally exposes your ability as an elder to judge. Which in-turn exposes the entire system as a whole.
Who are you, is not even close to being overweight, infact, is quite in shape as a man. (I should know, I am married to him)
I found that elders in trouble usually accused their victims of what they were guilty of. (your posts reek of this)
No need to reply....I think we have all heard enough from your camp.
r.