Did you ever 'Turn Someone In' to the elders? Do you regret it now?

by AK - Jeff 34 Replies latest jw friends

  • changeling
    changeling

    Yes and I do.

  • zagor
    zagor

    Hi Jeff, no not really, this is one area where I can say I've got a clean conscience, wish every other area is like that but no I never turned anyone in.

  • greendawn
    greendawn

    I never did and as far as I can recall I never saw anything that would justify turning someone in. And I never had this mentality of betraying people.

  • JK666
    JK666

    Dear Jeff,

    My dear friend, do not beat yourself up! We were TRAINED to be SOB's!

    I had a freind who had been "cut off" from his wife for years tell me that he was offered (and received) a BJ from someone. I told him that he needed to tell his elders, or I would have to. He did and had his nuts cut off. Thought I did the right thing at the time. (I was a self righteous A-hole)

    I remember when they were having marital problems, and I thought, thank God that will never happen to me. My ex wife ended up having numerous afffairs, and we divorced. Before I left the Borg, I had 3 marriages and divorces. Got DF'd twice, not for immorality, thank God the last one stuck.

    Lets play golf dude!

    JK

    PS, Avatar problem gone as of today

  • integ
    integ

    Yes. There was a gay guy at the assembly hall in Wisconsin, who wanted to play a "game" wherein we both pulled down our pants and run around the parking lot. I found out he was gay later (not that there's anything wrong with that).

    I have had a hard time forgiving myself for that to this day. When I saw the fear in his eyes at the JC, I wished I could crawl in a hole and die. My mom pushed me into reporting him, and I wasn't even a witness then (baptized). He wasn't either. That was back in the days when they could do stuff to you even if you weren't baptized.

    It was fun running around the parking lot with my pants down though.

    -Integ.

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