What's Your Opinion Of Today's Jehovah's Witness?

by minimus 29 Replies latest jw friends

  • minimus
    minimus

    I was raised as a JW. I'm 51 now and I've seen many changes over the years. In the mid 70s, when Ray Franz, Ed Dunlap (sp?) and company were researching things, there seemed to be more "heart" shown by the GB and guest Bethel speakers. Sure, they were drumming up 1975 but they seemed genuinely caring about the "friends".

    Now, it seems that the Watchtower Society only accepts their own Pharisaical rules and regulations more than anything else. "Love" is something merely talked about. Doing more and never doing enough are the themes. To me, today's JW is a emotionally stunted individual. More Witnesses seem depressed than ever before! They act like Stepford families. They do things because they are programmed. All genuine joy seems lost.

    Today's Jehovah's Witness has no future. College is considered (once again) dangerous. Children are being encouraged to get baptized like never before. Oldsters who never got married or had children because "Mother" told them that they shouldn't are now alone to fend for themselves. They know, they feel the lack of love. If it's a choice to have a fellow Witness assist an elderly one OR auxillary or regular pioneer, the Society will say that the preaching work is most important.

    If a Witness makes an error and sins, they are subject to harsh "discipline" and they are made to pay for their faults. They are put on restrictions, can be privately or publicly reproved or simply left alone, snubbed and shunned.

    I see no happy future for Witnesses today. They might now be hearing how the "end is sooooo very close now", but the reality is that I think most Witnesses "hope" to see things get better but believe that in their lifetime, not much is going to change.

    Your thoughts on Witnesses??

  • 5go
    5go

    If they could just learn to live with pewsitters like most religions due they could survive.

    But, for now they can't.

    Which will hurt them till they understand that the more you tolerate the more you survive as a religion.

  • minimus
    minimus

    Yes, they are so intolerant. All cults are.

  • zack
    zack

    I gave my first student talk in 1971. Of the servant body then, only 1 made it past 1976 as a JW. Those guys had what you are calling "heart." They believed in a brotherhood. The "Truth" was a shared experience. I remember people being happy.

    Who is happy now? Most dubs don't even READ the Bible. I told my wife the other day that it was her "sacred duty" to submit to the FDS and she vehemently denied that it was. When I showed her her own underlined copy of the WT study article, she didn't even ACKNOWLEDGE what a statement like that means! They do not even THINK about what their beliefs are. If they did, they'd leave.

    I know of no person that is actually JOYOUS in my cong. They are all riddled with problems and waiting on the "end" to solve them all, when all they have to do is take some action on their part to at least ameliorate their situations. And they are aging and dieing, clinging to "Paradise" that never came.

    The talks are sterile, forced. The elders are company men. Old people go neglected and lonesome. The Kingdom Hall is a sad, sad place on a Sunday.

  • minimus
    minimus

    During CO's visits they might exude fake joy.

  • stillajwexelder
    stillajwexelder

    not as blindly obedient as they once were. Many will miss meetings and go away for leisure time at weekends etc, Many youngsters having sex and leading double lives

  • juni
    juni

    Since I haven't been around for 14 years outside of a short stop in the Hall for a public talk and WT study - by the way I left early...... sounds to me that they are becoming more disenchanted and more robotical just to hang in there. No vibrancy left. Not like it used to be decades ago.

    I think for the most part, people are just hanging on and waiting for the promised End.....

    I feel a lot more are going to call it quits.

    Juni

  • minimus
    minimus

    No one really believes "millions now living will never die". Today's JWs have a hard time accepting tht they believed a falsehood for so many decades. Sad, really.

  • WTWizard
    WTWizard

    They are going down the toilet fast. I remember when there used to be at least a little life. Granted, there were strict rules and anyone breaking them would be pulled into the back room. But there used to be get-togethers outside and after the meetings. And field service seemed to have a bit more excitement back then than lately, even though that isn't saying much about it even then.

    Now, it is all sterile. The meetings are sterilized. There are no gatherings because of the isolated incidents where fornication (who gives a *$&@?) has followed them. There are more, and more stupid, rules now than before. And with the Kool-Aid rags ahead, it is going to get even worse. I am sure glad I no longer go to any of the meetings or out in service--if they take away all the embellishments, I will just order some from Bronner's or Christmas Mouse.

  • minimus
    minimus

    When the Society decided to limit personal expression, they created that Stepford mentality and robotness. Normal people can't get excited over nothing. This is not a Seinfeld episode.

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