I have wondered this for years. Not just among the dubs. In general.
I have a 'step brother', for lack of better and more accurate terminology. [I wouldn't claim him if he were dead]. This joker, being about 45ish by this point, has worked perhaps a total of a year in all his damn life. He is a sponge, with a propensity to find the girl with water. This guy has slept with more women than some porn stars I hear. He is downright ugly. [This coming from a man who knows better than to claim I am handsome by any means, but I do take care of myself.] This guy would repel buzzards if he was dying in the desert.
At last count, he has 6 children from 5 different women, has never paid a lick of child support, usually lives with one of them, mooches money and food and cars and houses from wherever he can get them. Yet he has always had beautiful women flocking about him. He uses drugs at times, and that might be the draw. Or maybe he has a giant wood-pecker in the garage. But this picture is sorry. He is breeding more little welfare suckers, getting plenty of ooooo in the night, and doesn't even have to work for the rent. If I were an alien and chose his life to study, I would assume that women are too stupid to be allowed to propagate, and men are ugly anyway. Then I would just wipe out mankind on the basis that there can be no respectable future for this race of people, and that there was no intelligent life on this planet. Hopefully if aliens are studying us they are using the 'double blind' method of testing. LOL
Jeff