What I see missing is fairness. If men can have multiple partners so can women. If men can have multiple wives, women can have multiple husbands.
You still see the double-standard attitude displayed on some of these posts. Comments about women and men watching t.v. and guys would sleep with all the women, while women wouldn't want all those handsome guys??????
As a woman, I must say, that we really do try NOT to step on your egos....due to their fragility...but please get real!!!!!!!!! Women think a lot more about other men than is realized. (We just aren't as vocal about it!) That is not to say that we can't be faithful to one mate, just the same as men.
I do think that you can be attracted to more than one person at a time, just as you are friends with more than one person at a time. What you decide to do in that situation, is an entirely different matter. You might not have any control on who you fall in love with, but you do have control over your actions, man or woman.
Swalker (of the one mate at a time class!)