A Farewell to 'Lost Souls'

by Gill 35 Replies latest jw experiences

  • Gill
    Gill

    After very little discussion and even contact with my parents in the last few months, they seemed to decide, either for themselves, or maybe they were put up to it, to confront me on my view of the Watchtower Society and condemn me, my husband and children to death.....any time soon.....when Armageddon comes. This was last week. It was quite a confrontation. I stood my ground and would not let them bully me in any way. I know I WON the whole discussion but probably lost my parents to the WT society.....but have to admit that sadly, it doesn't really matter anymore.

    I'm afraid they continually called me an apostate and told me how apostates are , 'evil, horrible, bad and satanic people!' I asked them if they knew what an 'apostate' was and why they didn't look the word up in the dictionary. They said they had seen the apostates demonstrating at the assembly and they were vile, horrible and bad people! I said that they were only there to try and help him to escape the cult! Naturally this set off a lot of fireworks! My parents especially hate the 'C' word!

    Anyway, I am no longer 'worthy' to receive the Watchtower and Awake! However, I have a back up plan for this scenario and so it is no skin off my nose....just less placements for them! I did say that they had to give me the mags because otherwise they would not know what was in them. They insisted that they read the things. I wanted them to explain why they didn't know about the things I was telling them which totally stunned them. I said either they had NOT read the damned things or they could not understand them. Naturally they were not best pleased.

    The blood transfusion issue totally stumped them. They didn't like the question about where in the bible, if it said they couldn't have blood transfusions, did it say that they COULD have blood fractions? Apparantly, the only part of blood that the GB have said they shouldn't have is the ONLY part that actually transmits life!!!! How totally stupid and ridiculous.

    Obviously a lot more was said. I shan't bore you with the details but I did tell them that I DO NOT want them to leave the Watchtower Society. I said I wanted them to stay in it as they were too old to change or understand what had happened to them and that I felt they deserved the Watchtower Society. This completely stumped them and they finally left.

    So, that day has come. I expect there will be very little contact with them any more. I see them for what they are; lost souls that need a fantasy religion to make sense of their day to day lives and I am sorry for them but I do have a secret snigger when I consider their shock one day when they do realise, one way or another that they were conned! I know that day will come and I do feel only a little bit sorry for them because they have been warned many times.

    They choose to 'love' a book publishing company above their very own family.

    Goodbye you poor lost souls! Perhaps one day we will meet under different circumstances. But I feel no loss over people who choose to come to me and tell me that me and mine are about to die if we don't bow down to the image of the Watchtower Bible and Tract Society!

    I am not only not 'bowing', but I am turning road, dropping my draws and mooning! (Metaphorically speaking, of course!)

  • free2think
    free2think

    They choose to 'love' a book publishing company above their very own family.

    This statement sums it up.

    I'm really sorry Gill, although in the end they are the ones missing out.

  • Gill
    Gill

    free2think - Thank you for the sympathy. However, as time has gone by, what I 'feared' most was really something not to be feared at all but instead a great liberation.

    Definitely, they are the ones who will be missing out but still, I only feel a limited sympathy for them. They have made a choice be it conscious or unconscious but still THEY made it. The kids are fantastic! They will be missing out on them. But how can you allow your children to spend time with a grandparent whose love is conditional. My father actually said to me: 'Shame on you! One day, and that day WILL come I promise you that, I will turn round and my grandchildren will be gone. They will be destroyed by Jehovah. How can you allow that to happen to them?'

    They are not worthy of my children and the loss of theirs is great!

  • anglise
    anglise

    Gill

    I am sorry that you are having to go through this.

    Maybe you standing your ground will cause them to think-who knows. Are they very elderly?

    I hope your children can cope with the premature loss that their grandparents have inflicted on them.

    I hate the bullying tactics of the borg, it is all emotional blackmail.

    Hugs and take care

    Anglise

  • Gill
    Gill

    Hello, Anglise!

    My parents are in their early seventies but quite fit and healthy. As for the children, I believe it is the youngest ones who will be missing their grandparents but certainly not the older ones who have not been 'happy' with the comments made by their grandparents for a long time. WT society influence or not, it is them who are choosing to behave so badly. Who else goes around telling their family that they are all going to die unless they attend Watchtower 'sales meetings'? Not many people in their right minds, anyway.

    So, we can all get on without that kind of bullying and negativity. I thought I would miss them. I'm surprised to find that their 'disowning us' is a wonderful relief! I hope that is a sad reflection on their nasty bullying rather than our frustration with them.

    I still would not like to be an old person who discovers that they have Literally wasted their whole lives in pursuit of the wind!

    Better to live one day as a free man than a whole life time as a slave!

    Gill

  • quietlyleaving
    quietlyleaving
    Anyway, I am no longer 'worthy' to receive the Watchtower and Awake! However, I have a back up plan for this scenario and so it is no skin off my nose....just less placements for them! I did say that they had to give me the mags because otherwise they would not know what was in them. They insisted that they read the things. I wanted them to explain why they didn't know about the things I was telling them which totally stunned them. I said either they had NOT read the damned things or they could not understand them.

    Gill they're going to miss you.

  • Gill
    Gill

    quietlyleqving - Do you think they will? I think they might miss our 'discussions' and 'counting time'.

    As they pleaded for me to 'go back' to KH I told them squarely that I NEVER will and that I would rather die than ever be a JW again! I think they got the message!

  • Hortensia
    Hortensia

    the sad thing is that they all hope for the big A because they don't want to die. When they have to face the fact that millions now living WILL die, including them, they feel betrayed by god. I really believe that many of them buy into the whole line of bullshit because they don't want to die. Well, nobody does, but when you face the fact that you will, you try to make more of life, and that is what they will regret some day.

  • candidlynuts
    candidlynuts

    isnt it amazing how people who've known us our entire lives can call former witnesses evil or satanic?

    it doesnt matter that we have factual reasons for knowing the watchtower is flawed. it doesnt matter that most of us were hurt personally by witnesses, it doesnt matter that in most other areas of life our loved ones would seek out our opinion and listen to our reasoning.

    it's heartbreaking , it sounds like you handled yourself well and got your point across.

  • unique1
    unique1

    Wow, you have a very good attitude about the whole thing. I hope they choose not to shun you.

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