As a matter of fact challenging, I'm glad you're disguested by me, you act like an enemy to ones that are actively trying to do the right thing... I don't want you on my team and frankly I think you're showing what you're made of when you attack those doing the right thing.
Second string quarterbacks need not apply
by dawg 21 Replies latest jw friends
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changeling
You're still in JW mode if you think there is only "one way", "one right thing". I have no problem with your methods, It's your choice to implement them. I'm glad they work for you. Just don't force them on the rest of us and undermine the efforts we all make in different ways.
You've not lived my life and you don't know me or my circumstances so quit bullying me and others who don't chose to act like you.
changeling
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dawg
Challenging-You aren't smart enough to understand what that says? It says that you can give advice or keep quiet, and here you critize futher. ANd you think that means it's my way or the high way? you've got to be kidding me, read what's posted not what you read into it.... get a plan of your own, tell us suggestoins, but don't critize-that's what makes you a loser! Now, with that being said, do you have anything to offer that has worked for you? Didn't think so...
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dawg
Maybe your moniker should be changed to "mentally challenging"
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changeling
There you go again with the low blows.
As for suggestions and helping others: read my posts. I respond to all sorts of people here offering encouregement and support. I give suggestions when warranted.
My take on helping family out of the organization is to take it slow, to teach by example. That's what works for me and I pass it on. But I don't ramrod people with my approch. You either don't read my posts or don't see what I say as valuable because I don't follow your way of thinking.
You have to learn to live and let live. You will be much happier. (That's advice by the way)
changeling
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journey-on
Dawg....please calm down. I bet you're a mean drunk....no offense. I'm just picking up on something. I've read Changeling's posts and she's insightful, compassionate, intelligent, and DEFINITELY NOT A LOSER. So, please shut up. No offense intended.
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dawg
Journey on-read her insulting replies to me before you post... she was insulting...then you state her post are insightful and not insulting... can you read? My thread called people losers that critize others while not offering suggestions... you offer no suggetions and then call me a drunk... you're in idiot.... Let's see how this works, I get insulted personally becasue neither of you are willing to read the post which shows you totally wrong about everything you're saying, then you call me a drunk... Both of you should feel shame but are probably too ignorant... and what's worse, I haven't had a drink.... maybe you two should
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journey-on
You are wrong on so many counts, I'm not even going to go there. If I were to use the same kind of twisted logic you do, I'd be telling you I didn't call you a drunk. I said I bet you are a mean drunk. But I don't want to get into name calling. I actually kind of like you after all the blustering and insulting is peeled away. Mellow out, will ya'?
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Beep,Beep
Here's a thought. Your method may work for you.
However if you tried the 'hard ball' routine with my family you would get NO WHERE! They would simply walk away from you. You could say whatever you wanted, they would simply ignore you. You wouldn't get anywhere with that approach.
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John Doe
Dawg, I appreciate your post saying that other methods work for other people. However, in some of your other threads you have said that passive methods don't work, and you criticized people who employ those techniques. Tell me sir, what is the difference between your criticizing of other's methods and their criticizing of yours? Why the chip on your shoulder? Why do you see mandating what religion others have as your responsibility, as if you were helping a drug addict?