Life sometimes can throw some curveballs

Junction-Guy

Amanda suggested I post this on here, I talked with her about it this morning.

Things are getting strange, there is a woman who is a little older than me, who keeps dropping hints that she wants to go to Myrtle Beach with me.

I would feel funny taking her there as that is where we spent our honeymoon together.

Right now, Im not even looking for a woman, yet they are falling out of the woodwork. I wonder when the time comes and Im ready to start dating will these opportunities still be there?

My life definitely is a roller coaster.

Sorry I cant post more, I wanted to be more detailed, in fact I tried to post a more detailed post, and it didnt go through, so now Im posting the abbreviated version.

I can add more later when I see fit.

MadTiger

You better go up to bat for Team Hetero while the coach is giving you a chance to play.

You could be on the bench next month.

Gopher

I would feel funny taking her there

Right now, Im not even looking for a woman

So why even go there?

mrsjones5

If you feel funny about the thought of taking this woman then don't and ignore her hints. You're not beholden to take her cuz she wants to go.

PEC

JG, Check the "Do You Have the "Gift of Singleness"? How's it going?" thread.

Uzzah

If I could be so bold:

In the past year or so, you have posted you have gay thoughts and experimented, then you were lonely, then hetero for sure, then admitted confusion again, now are posting about the plethora of women available. I may have missed some of the see-saw but remember these highlights. Now you state you are consulting your ex about your dating choices. WTF DUDE!?!?!?

My only suggestion is that if you actually date anyone let them know it is for fun and not interested in anything serious. I think you have a lot to figure out about yourself before ever hauling someone else into a serious relationship with you.

Only my perspective - Uzzah

Sassy

didn't you just have a post recently that you were wanting a girlfriend?

now you say they are coming out of the woodwork?

Junction-Guy

I know it sounds weird, like way out there.

but since the beginning I have wanted nothing less than a woman to share my life with. When I found Amanda there were sparks, the problem is that we rushed too quickly into marriage and fell way in love before we realized that we were incompatible.

I just hate the dating game period. I did try it once and I bombed big time. Now that Im not even looking for a woman they are mysteriously appearing everywhere.

Off to work now, can discuss this later

BizzyBee

Im not even looking for a woman, yet they are falling out of the woodwork.

Confucious say: women who fall out of woodwork are usually thicker than two short planks.

FlyingHighNow

Here's the thing: when you put out desperate vibes, no one will come near you. When you are confident and not really looking for someone, people will be more attracted to you as friends and as potential relationship material.

If I were dating again, I wouldn't date people I didn't know at least a little. I'd have to know up front if I'd enjoy their company before being put in a potentially painful, one on one situation.

Life sometimes can throw some curveballs

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