Ahh I suppose after posting a bit its time to say hello.
Hello people, all of you :).
Who am I, well I'm the middle child of my parents, who are ex jw's, so I'm not sure if that makes me one since they stopped attending jw occasions when I was 11, but having experienced being part of it, and having not enjoyed it I can say I class myself as an ex-jw.
I guess the real reason I found the whole being part of the jw's traumatic and unpleasant was that I happened to get really badly bullied at school. The main reason I was bullied, I was a jw, I was not allowed birthdays and Christmas. Its astonishing how unpleasant children can be towards others if they see them as different.
I know I always felt I was the outsider, even after my parents left the jw's, because I was still bullied with regards to the whole jw thing, the children at school just didn't want to let it drop. I suppose that children just happen to like picking on those they see as weaker than themselves, as different to themselves.
Lucky for me really when I left school to attend college, I got away from being referred to as a jw, I got away from the fact I was associated with it, and actually made friends with people who didn't care about me being an ex-jw.
I know that what I experienced is not very much, but then I was only 11 when I left. I suppose that sort of sums up who I am and how I'm connected with jw's. So really thats me.
Faery :D
Hello people, :)!
by Littledreamfaery 22 Replies latest jw friends
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Littledreamfaery
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IP_SEC
Welcome LDF! You dont mind me calling you LDF do you?
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Rosalee
Hi Faery
Sorry your experiences of being JW were so terrible. My background is the opposite as my family life got normal after we accepted the truth. Good to hear you now have a happy life with good friends :)
Rosie
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quietlyleaving
Hi, welcome
So glad you got away when you did. Very sorry you got bullied though.
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daystar
*Wave* Good to have you here.
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PEC
Littledreamfaery, welcome to JWD.
Imagine being a JW and the one white student in an all black school. Does anyone remember going out in to the school yard for the pledge of allegiance? Wasn't that fun? I should document that three years of my life; but, not today.
Philip
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free2think
Welcome LittleDreamFaery
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Nathan Natas
Wait just a minute, there, girlie! You mean you WEREN'T a Circuit Servant, or a mighty ELDER, or a vanquishing PIONEER? WHA-A-A-A-A-T????
Yes, of course you can join our club! Welcome! You've served your time in your personal HELL. You are one of us, and if anyone says you ain't, they'll have to answer to me! You've got Big Brothers now!
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Quandry
Welcome!! Glad to know that you are in college with what is sure to be a bright future ahead. I know that you will gain fulfillment as a contributing member to society.
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ex-nj-jw
Welcome LDF,
You are lucky you got out with your family in tact! I was raised in the JW and left when I turned 18, I never got bullied for being JW, because I always told classmates that my parents were but I wasn't. Even in Kindergarten I didn't claim being JW, even saluted the flag.
I'm happy for you that you now have a life free of the JW cult!
nj