Wanderer, I don't think you get what we've been trying to tell you.
We get why you post subjects or questions. You post a question, then sit back and let us all "talk amongst ourselves" about the topic. What we don't get is why you do so in the way that you do. Why do you compose such elaborate "articles" of hypothetical situations, complete with Watchtower formatting, and then invite us to discuss and post our answers? When I read your "articles" and then I'm told to ponder it and reply with my comments, I feel like I'm either a laboratory rat being studied or, more often, I feel like I'm back at the KH in the WT study. Neither one is a pleasant feeling. As I said, why don't you just ask a simple, non-article question, like:
"Hey everyone. I just saw a former friend of mine from the KH and he kinda acted like he wanted to talk. We didn't but I was thinking about contacting him. What should I say?"
OK, that is completely made up, but you get the drift. It's a real situation, and you're asking for real advice. Do you see the difference between that topic and yours? Now that's not to say everything you post needs to be a question. You could just make a funny observation that you think others might appreciate, or just tell us you're having a crappy day because of ..., or whatever. You also should take the advice of many and post more often on other people's threads. Just hang out, shoot the breeze, enjoy the conversation, without worrying about font color and spacing and hypothetical nonsense.
I hope you don't get too offended. I'm trying to get you to see why others react negatively to many of your threads.